Nasty text from a guy who turned out to be a fake friend

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So,
I had posted in the social skills and making friends about a situation with a guy who I had run into who gave me a ride. However, he just kept being destructive and kept flirting with me while comparing me to another pretty girl who is a friend of mine. So I decided to friendzone him as first but other people said that he is not someone I should be around.

So I called him and left a message by nicely said that it was not going to work out for us to friends or date because we are on different wavelengths and that I felt he is very immature. I had also blocked his number which I thought would have blocked his text messages.

I got a nasty text from him stating that he and another guy who I also don't like very much and caught up and were joking and laughing about what a loser I am.

Remove his messages. Don't respond to them. Ghost him.
If you don't respond, he will finally get bored and find some other entertainment.

Wow, what a jerk this guy sounds like. It's possible he's making up a story about what he and his friend are doing to cover up the fact he's a sore loser in a way to feign superiority. I knew someone who did something similar to me in an attempt to guilt trip me but I didn't fall for it because I knew the guy was an empty boaster (In other words, full of s**t). When his plan didn't work, he pretended to be sad and lonely while denying he did anything wrong at the same time.

Kick him to the curb. You deserve better.

I was trying to kick him to the curb and block him and then got that message. You are right he is a loser and I know that he is talking about himself because he doesn't have anything going for him.

I blocked him from calling and texting me because I don't want anything to do with him and again, I made it clear that I am not interested in maintaining and sort of relationship because he is rude.

Unfortunately that is not unusual it happens from time to time. Maybe you should've left out that he is immature that probably made him more mad hence the nasty message. Personally I tend to just ghost guys i've been on a date with or met if I didn't like him for some reason i'm doing that with a guy right now that I went on ONE date with 2 months ago but he still texts me like twice a week saying hi and inbetween those texts calling me out for ghosting him yet he doesn't stop... I think men like that are insane and it's better to ignore them or reject them in the kindest way possible. I've come across many weird men in my life.

He's the loser. You're definitely not. You're doing the right thing to block him in all respects. Run away from toxic people that demean you.

I spent Sunday with some nice people and none of them kept picking on me over this and that. Rather, they accepted me for who I am.

I had given him plenty of opportunities in the past and he just kept wanting to be mean and obnoxious. However, he didn't actually a "Loser" until a few days later.

I actually called him immature when I mentioned that I am not interested in him and that we are on different wavelengths which were last Monday in which I told him he was too immature and that I would feel better with us hanging out in groups. However, after having several discussions and reading things on WP "Social skills and Making Friends" I decided to cut him from my life.

I called him on Weds and let him down by leaving a message and telling him that we just are on different wavelengths next to feeling uncomfortable associating with him. That was before I had attempted to block him altogether.

He just attacked me on Sunday night

just totally dont answer, react, etc. sometimes its the only way. its the green grapes thing. and dont try to be polite, either. tell them to f*** off if they get in ur face. scum belongs in the gutter.

I told him that if he ever contacts me or ever tries to come onto my property, I am going to call the police

Is this the same guy you wrote about "Friendzoning" in This Thread?

Opening two or more threads on the same subject could get you in trouble.

Dude nice.

Sometimes the most valuable thing you get out of an encounter with a person is an example of how you don't want to be.

I like that a lot. By the way, I have only decided to find better ways to attract healthy relationships