The most unfair thing you've had to deal with

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A couple weeks ago, I shared my story of how I got robbed of my first relationship that could possibly last a long time. At least until her parents somehow decide to let her be, which won't be anytime soon.

Now I wanna know, what is something that has happened in your life that is so unfair to you? Bad things that have happened that are completely out of your control, and it causes you a lot of hurt inside?

its hard to rate s**t. lets just say, when i am treated fairly, i get paranoid and start looking for a catch.

Where to begin...

The time I got molested by my cousin when I was 10 years old nobody would believe me.

The time I had the hell beat out of me for sneaking a pop tart out of the kitchen and was forced to wear pants to school the next day to hide the marks on my legs.

Not being allowed to learn to drive.

Having to put up with my mom breaking up and getting back with her psycho ex husband for 9 years and going.

Losing my house when my mom divorced her second husband and we couldn't afford the rent and we basically wound up homeless for awhile.

My mom's second husband taking my brothers and sister away from me after he and my mom divorced.

My real dad and mom divorcing when I was just a baby and he and his family never had s**t to do with me.

My best friend passing away.

I could go on and on...

thats why i'd rather not make lists. to not scathe u lot.

I think I'm a lot better now than I was. I mean that's all in the past right? At least I'm not dealing with most of those things now.

Besides there's lots of people out there who I'm sure have had it worst than me. I've had plenty of good things happen in my life too.

I have faced chronic rejection from society through out my entire life. I have lived a life of emptiness, loneliness and isolation.

Being an Aspie is the most unfair thing I've ever had to deal with in my life because of certain NTs getting away with ruining my life but if I defend myself against an NT bully just once, I get the "oh how do you think that poor NT felt when you said/did that?" lecture. That just makes my blood boil.

it gets even better when they use ur help/resourses/whatever and then b***h about their feelings, when they nevr gave a f**k to urs) ya, i kinda am so used to that, im really surprised when it doesnt happen xD

Was I blessed to have a mostly positive experience with most Neurotypicals or what?

I admit I was bullied by kids in school who called me "Forrest Gump" and "Harry Potter on Crack" but most NT adults I knew were pretty nice to me. And the kids started being nicer to me as I got older.

When I was young I ran away to France and got detained in a mental hospital there. Upon my return to the UK I was sent a bill for £2000. I was left almost penniless.

I consider it unfair because I didn't have the mental health at the time to understand the need for travel medical insurance or a European health insurance card.

TW1ZTY,

Wow, that's horrible! That's not just unfair; that's downright horrendous.

toys and food isnt everything a child needs...