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06 Dec 2018, 4:05 pm

We started going to a restaurant regularly and there is one particular waitress he started talking to in Spanish, but today they exchanged addresses and phone numbers right in front of me. Then later he said he did nothing wrong. I probably wouldn't think nothing of it if it was a male, but is it really appropriate for a married man to give his address and phone number to some woman like that??? He broke my heart kinda.


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06 Dec 2018, 4:20 pm

What reason did he give you for exchanging his contact information with another woman?



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06 Dec 2018, 4:24 pm

Oh ... Angnix! That was so mean! I wanna punch him!



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06 Dec 2018, 4:40 pm

Based on your description, it sounds, to me, like he did nothing "wrong"

Do you speak Spanish?

If you can't trust your spouse to have friends of the opposite sex, maybe you should not have gotten married in the first place

Was he flirting?



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06 Dec 2018, 5:01 pm

He said he wanted to try to help her to get her immigration papers since he went through the process himself, but I felt inviting her over to the house was a bit much.


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06 Dec 2018, 6:09 pm

Angnix wrote:
He said he wanted to try to help her to get her immigration papers since he went through the process himself, but I felt inviting her over to the house was a bit much.

I kind of agree with you. This is one of those things you might want to run past your spouse before you do it. It was inconsiderate of him.


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