indeed cant well, separate u from ur condition. but can learn to control it. can develop adaptations that would well, make it easier for u. i am by no means bipolar OR borderline, but i have experienced splitting (mostly caused by ptsd spikes and\or autistic overstimulation) and learned to cope with it. takes its toll, but it works. the conditions we have are, indeed, part of us, but being part of us, they are ours to take on. after all, people with perfect mental health can also lack self control and be just... well, total waste of space. its hard work and hard choices, but u can have the upper hand over urself. dont give it up.
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sanity is a prison. insanity is doom. is there a third option, please?
beware the ire of the patient ones!
and if i walk away, who is gonna stay? i believe to make the world be a better place.