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08 Mar 2019, 10:46 pm

I recently got the phone number of my crush yesterday and I texted her but I waited all day for a response and got nothing. I know there is a chance that she was busy today like I know she has a job but I just feel like its the same story of me getting my hopes up and it goes nowhere. Heck, there is a chance that wasn't even her real phone number. I am getting tired of this and it makes me very upset.



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09 Mar 2019, 6:22 am

KanyeWestFan wrote:
I recently got the phone number of my crush yesterday and I texted her but I waited all day for a response and got nothing. I know there is a chance that she was busy today like I know she has a job but I just feel like its the same story of me getting my hopes up and it goes nowhere. Heck, there is a chance that wasn't even her real phone number. I am getting tired of this and it makes me very upset.

So don't get your hopes up. There's your problem right there, getting your hopes up for things that there's a good chance won't turn out how you want. That's a recipe for disappointment. I go through life taking things for what they are and remaining internally emotionally reserved until there is a reason to get excited and it's highly unlikely to not go how I want it to, like if I'm at a job interview and they've told me outright that I've got the job for example. Any significant chance of things going south, especially if it's a high chance, and there's no use getting your hopes up.



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09 Mar 2019, 7:21 am

did u "get" that number, or did the person in question give it to u?


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09 Mar 2019, 9:57 am

serpentari wrote:
did u "get" that number, or did the person in question give it to u?


the second one but the phrase is "I got her number" haha



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09 Mar 2019, 10:23 am

well if she gave a wrong number, or wouldnt answer after giving a right one, are u sure u really want to be around such a em... "practical joker"... person?
also what inquisitor said.
having ur feelings un-answered is allways painful. but such is life. we chose, we get chosen, and more often than not it doesnt coincide. maybe there is somebody, who is crushed on u, without a responce from u, in turn. how would u treat them if they kept getting in ur face?


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