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TheRevengeofTW1ZTY
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30 Jun 2019, 9:53 am

Is it because people as a collective are just a bunch of superficial a**holes?

Seriously, I hate people. And yet I'm hooked on social media. Why is that? :shrug:


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30 Jun 2019, 11:49 am

I gave up on social media years ago, I deleted all my Facebook friends and only use it for support groups now. Maybe try disconnecting yourself from all that s**t. It is all phony anyways, they post an unrealistic idealistic filtered version of their true lives.



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30 Jun 2019, 12:32 pm

Noca wrote:
I gave up on social media years ago, I deleted all my Facebook friends and only use it for support groups now. Maybe try disconnecting yourself from all that s**t. It is all phony anyways, they post an unrealistic idealistic filtered version of their true lives.

I think you're right. Not to mention all the annoying drama. :(


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30 Jun 2019, 7:17 pm

Some judgments are natural, involuntary or subconscious

Some judgments are necessary



Some lil dips**ts just want to believe that they know everything



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30 Jun 2019, 7:22 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Some judgments are natural, involuntary or subconscious

Some judgments are necessary



Some lil dips**ts just want to believe that they know everything


I don't think anybody really knows anything.

Perception is reality. If everyone in the USA decided to "perceive" the sky as being red and not blue, then all of a sudden it would be red.


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03 Jul 2019, 11:16 pm

I was working under the belief that "Twitter" was for twits. <shrug>
Not interested in Facebook or the like.



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06 Jul 2019, 1:15 pm

TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
Is it because people as a collective are just a bunch of superficial a**holes?

Seriously, I hate people. And yet I'm hooked on social media. Why is that? :shrug:


You're asking why people are so judgemental whilst calling everybody a bunch of superficial a**holes?


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06 Jul 2019, 3:04 pm

babybird wrote:
TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
Is it because people as a collective are just a bunch of superficial a**holes?

Seriously, I hate people. And yet I'm hooked on social media. Why is that? :shrug:


You're asking why people are so judgemental whilst calling everybody a bunch of superficial a**holes?


Are you saying when people act like bullies they don't deserve to be judged by the person who they are bullying?


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06 Jul 2019, 3:42 pm

But you’re saying “people as a collective.” I don’t find most people to be a**holes.

Obviously, bullies need to be judged for being bullies. They are a**holes.



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06 Jul 2019, 9:22 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
But you’re saying “people as a collective.” I don’t find most people to be a**holes.


Well I do. People as individuals are alright, and people as a collective are indeed a**holes.

It's all part of the group mentality. When people get together in groups they become bullies against anyone outside the group. This happens in wars, this happens in religions, and this happens in your annoying high school cliques.

Face it, people in general ARE a**holes and I'm sick and tired of them!


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07 Jul 2019, 7:36 am

TheRevengeofTW1ZTY wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
But you’re saying “people as a collective.” I don’t find most people to be a**holes.


Well I do. People as individuals are alright, and people as a collective are indeed a**holes.

It's all part of the group mentality. When people get together in groups they become bullies against anyone outside the group. This happens in wars, this happens in religions, and this happens in your annoying high school cliques.

Face it, people in general ARE a**holes and I'm sick and tired of them!


Human psychology is crap, agreed. :wink: