Why do people hate me?

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I wonder why people avoid me and everyone hates me. I feel im not being treated like others. Whats the possible reason of this

I wonder the same thing when someone hates me for no goddamn reason.

I'm sorry, but I don't know you well enough to answer your question with a definitive response.

People hate me for being right when they're wrong, for being successful when they're not, for having a wife when they don't, for not being gullible enough to believe their lies, and for suggesting that they should act more responsibly for themselves.

People hate others for being evil, for being mean, for being Republican (when they're not) or Democrat (when they're not), for being of a different race, for being of the opposite sex, for being LGBTQ, for being hetero-normative, for being neurotypical ... and a host of different reasons that make no sense to me.

Sorry I can't be of more help.

There are a lot of causes of hatred, as Fnord has pointed out. My guess, just off the wall, is that people do not hate you (nor SarahSmith.) Hate is a fevered, angry, irrational, almost primitive brain emotion. Any given person is unlikely to elicit that level of intensity of an emotion.

Fnord, I don't think people hate you either. I think people are annoyed, but that is different from hate.

Mostly we aspies feel left out because we are different and different is difficult for NTs to process. So we get ignored or uninvited.

In my life, I have had the most success when I can find a role in which I can be helpful to others.

If you think there is nothing you can do to help someone else, please consider the numerous people living in nursing homes. If you can just come and listen. Or come and hold a hand. That brings joy to so many people who are without humane contact. And research has shown (don't make me find it) that even a short visit results in a higher feeling of contentment for up to 24 hours. Even if the person has, for example, Alzheimers, and doesn't even remember that you came

Not enough information to answer the question

I’ve had plenty of people in my almost 62 years on this trash heap they call earth hate my guts for no particular reason, other than being fat and being from the “wrong side of the railroad tracks.” After all this time, the only thing I have to say is “F!ck ‘em if they can’t take a joke. I’m better off being a hermit, rather than put up with some arsewipe’s bullsh!t!”

When they say to me "I hate you", then I assume that they are telling the truth. Otherwise ... meh.

Sometimes I find myself telling people or thinking "I hate you!" Over something that's really not a big deal. Then once I calm down I feel embaressed and ashamed of myself.

Maybe some people who are leading you to believe they hate you don't really mean it and are just overreacting? If they knew how it hurt your feelings I'm sure they would change their tone.

I haven't seen the posts where someone has said "I hate you." It's their loss really. You have a lot to contribute.

Thanks. No worries. I'd rather be hated for being true to myself than be loved for living a lie.

I contribute a lot....my art.

I wish I could have told my younger self that back as a teenager when some people out of the blue told me how much they hated me even though they barely knew me. My brother is (or at least was) very well liked but I now realize he is only popular because he literally lives a fake persona. He is almost 40 and I honestly even know who he is because he is acting almost all the time.

I might not be popular, but I am absolutely, 100% me and my (immediate) family loves me for who I am.

I forgot to talk about my traits. honestly i am:
- lonely (no friends)
- quiet
- ugly
- loser
- have aspergers and social anxiety
- depressed
- dont have social skills

As a result nobody loves me and im being hated. i dont know what exactly makes me unlikeable but im just guessing

keep posting here and especially in the haven and I think you will make friends here on WP

Im a loser nobody loves me

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