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Nobody loves me

Your family lives you

Sometimes, those closest to us can say things that hurt us the most. Likewize, we can say things that hurt them the most. Hurts don't help. Forgive them even though it seems hard to do.
Do you wish you could take back things you've said and your family could take back what they've said and all can be good?
Jesus loves you mate. When everyone else may reject you, He does not.

Revenge will probably land you in jail.

And Sir Kraftie is right. Revenge could probably get you into situations you could not expect.

My family was cold and abusive to me as well and I retaliated against them and particularly my mom, sister, and cousin. I hit them and realized after I saw the damage I could do, would land me in serious consequences. There are people outside of your family who will love you no matter what and they won't fail to appreciate you like your family.

If your family doesn't love you, find someone who does.

The way to do this is by figuring out what you like to do in your spare time and looking for groups in your area who do that.

I'm into amateur radio. I found a club. I found some folks I can be myself with. I'm accepted well enough that I'm now president of the club. Go figure.

If you want to find a girlfriend/boyfriend/SO/whatever, the worst way to look is to join dating sites. Will you meet people? Likely. But the signal to noise ratio is very high. Best to use the same methodology you do to find friends. What do you like to do? Find a local group which does that. I know it's much easier said than done, but given time it works very well.