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07 Aug 2019, 5:32 pm

So my "bad uncle" and his girlfriend were kicked out of where they lived... So they wanted to stay with us!! ! Lol... We asked anyway and it's against our lease, but now he's trying to guilt trip us "I would have given you guys a vehicle" and calling my husband names on FB... And even threatened to come over here!! !

He was saying because he took us into his bedbug/flea infested, dog that pootied on everything house that now we are "obligated" to bring them into ours.... He got kicked out of his sister's house for some reason I don't know...


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07 Aug 2019, 5:50 pm

Why were they kicked out?



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07 Aug 2019, 5:51 pm

Don't do it. It's very hard to get people out, once they come in. Your home should be as peaceful as can be.


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07 Aug 2019, 5:53 pm

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Why were they kicked out?


I have no clue how they got kicked out.


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07 Aug 2019, 5:55 pm

Angnix wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Why were they kicked out?


I have no clue how they got kicked out.


I wouldn't ask. Stay Away!



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07 Aug 2019, 5:59 pm

Anyway I'm stressed over not getting the Wisconsin offer worked out... But I got a surprise interview call today from an AmeriCorps position starting next month in Ann Arbor which is a reasonable commute from here... And it pays more and is longer in duration than the zoo one... *Crosses fingers*


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07 Aug 2019, 6:02 pm

Oh, it's a VISTA position and the requirement was that you worked with youth before (I worked with the kiddies during my environmental education positions)


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07 Aug 2019, 6:05 pm

Would they provide relocation assistance?

I'm still sorry that you didn't get the zoo job.



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07 Aug 2019, 6:33 pm

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Would they provide relocation assistance?

I'm still sorry that you didn't get the zoo job.


I wouldn't relocate, I'd either get a vehicle or look into that commuter van


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07 Aug 2019, 6:40 pm

Is your husband treating you decently at this point? I hope so!



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07 Aug 2019, 7:34 pm

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Is your husband treating you decently at this point? I hope so!


Yes.... I really shouldn't post all my drama on here... I should vent to the little old ladies :lol:


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08 Aug 2019, 9:29 am

I told my aunt that one of the reasons we didn't accept them into our place was "we like our privacy" and she said "that's rude"

How is that rude??? Someone explain??? I'm confused as to how an NT saw that comment as rude???


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08 Aug 2019, 9:31 am

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I told my aunt that one of the reasons we didn't accept them into our place was "we like our privacy" and she said "that's rude". How is that rude??? Someone explain??? I'm confused as to how an NT saw that comment as rude???
Liking your privacy is NOT rude! Your aunt is trying to shame you into taking them in, and probably because their attempts to "guilt trip" you didn't work.

Is there any way you can block or screen their calls? The farther you distance yourselves from those people, the better off you will be.


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08 Aug 2019, 10:55 am

My husband said that wasn't a ride statement either...

I found out about the commuter vans... There are two of them in my little town and they both go to Ann Arbor area... I could probably find a pretty good position there!


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08 Aug 2019, 11:12 am

Did you find out when they operate?



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08 Aug 2019, 11:25 am

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Did you find out when they operate?


They leave like really early in the morning, 6, come back in afternoon.


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