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Highly_Autistic
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12 Aug 2019, 3:31 pm

Everything can instantly make me unhappy. even small things. Sorry for my bad english. I hope you understand me



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12 Aug 2019, 3:34 pm

I probably would be easily offeneded too, but I can't always tell that someone is trying to insult me, or if they are being sarcastic...or are otherwise insincere.



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12 Aug 2019, 9:39 pm

Compliments are judgmental

"What" is not the etiquette equivalent of "excuse me"


"Can you" is implying that, if you "can", you have to

"Girl" for over 18. Do not use the word unless you are referring to yourself or quotation. Or not unless you call men "boys"



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13 Aug 2019, 5:02 am

I don’t mind being complimented. I don’t like being insulted.

What do you like to read, Highly Autistic?



Highly_Autistic
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13 Aug 2019, 8:40 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don’t mind being complimented. I don’t like being insulted.

What do you like to read, Highly Autistic?


I dont like reading anything, to be honest im too depressed to read a book or do something



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13 Aug 2019, 8:43 am

Do you like comics like Superman or X-Men or whatever?



Highly_Autistic
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13 Aug 2019, 9:05 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Do you like comics like Superman or X-Men or whatever?


No



kraftiekortie
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13 Aug 2019, 9:07 am

You seem like a smart guy. You have to like something.....

What makes you jump up and down and be silly?



Highly_Autistic
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13 Aug 2019, 2:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
You seem like a smart guy. You have to like something.....

What makes you jump up and down and be silly?


I like:
-playing pc games
- listening to music
- watching film

but im not passionate about anything and im lifeless



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13 Aug 2019, 3:15 pm

I've been reading about emotional regulation (or rather dysregulation). I know intellectually a situation is a 3-4 (e.g. I am interrupted in front of my team) --- but I FEEL like it's a 6. If I find validation then the 6 goes down to 4, 2 etc. If I am invalidated ("it's not a problem..."), I spike up to 8 fast. (scale of 0 calm and 10 ballistic)

My high level of agitation is higher these days due to -hopefully passing- stress.



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14 Aug 2019, 12:18 pm

I am too.


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