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28 Oct 2019, 10:59 am

I'm disillusioned with WP. The members here who think what they do in some of pages of that thread, Appeal for peace & calm - I have no idea how you lot can possibly think the way you do. How B19 can live with herself for not letting anyone say anything against Fnord in his thread, and it wasn't even in the Haven. How can any of you live with yourselves? You lot are either horrible people, or completely clueless. Either way, I want nothing to do with most of you anymore. I had no idea how bad most of you were. Yes I am no angel, but I try my best to be nice to others, even if that includes telling my friends what they are doing is wrong to someone else.

I've wanted to help people. It's in my veins. It's not happening here anymore. No constructive criticism.


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28 Oct 2019, 11:05 am

smudge wrote:
I'm disillusioned with WP. The members here who think what they do in some of pages of that thread, Appeal for peace & calm - I have no idea how you lot can possibly think the way you do. How B19 can live with herself for not letting anyone say anything against Fnord in his thread, and it wasn't even in the Haven. How can any of you live with yourselves? You lot are either horrible people, or completely clueless. Either way, I want nothing to do with most of you anymore. I had no idea how bad most of you were. Yes I am no angel, but I try my best to be nice to others, even if that includes telling my friends what they are doing is wrong to someone else.

I've wanted to help people. It's in my veins. It's not happening here anymore. No constructive criticism.

Cheers! :drunken:
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And let your life revolve around something more pleasant than an individual you don't like :heart:


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28 Oct 2019, 11:08 am

magz wrote:
smudge wrote:
I'm disillusioned with WP. The members here who think what they do in some of pages of that thread, Appeal for peace & calm - I have no idea how you lot can possibly think the way you do. How B19 can live with herself for not letting anyone say anything against Fnord in his thread, and it wasn't even in the Haven. How can any of you live with yourselves? You lot are either horrible people, or completely clueless. Either way, I want nothing to do with most of you anymore. I had no idea how bad most of you were. Yes I am no angel, but I try my best to be nice to others, even if that includes telling my friends what they are doing is wrong to someone else.

I've wanted to help people. It's in my veins. It's not happening here anymore. No constructive criticism.

Cheers! :drunken:
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Get off my thread.


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28 Oct 2019, 11:10 am

No problem. Goodbye!


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28 Oct 2019, 11:16 am

'Bye! Stay Safe! Stay Well!


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28 Oct 2019, 11:30 am

Sorry to see you go, smudge. :(



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28 Oct 2019, 11:44 am

Sorry if I was one of the people who upset you, I was triggered by BDavero insulting people and wasn't aware of all the

other grievances and tensions.

A lot of things were being deleted, so in that sense, some of us were clueless as to the cause of al this upset.

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'Bye! Stay Safe! Stay Well!


Fnord, you say you're tired and that you've changed. :|



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28 Oct 2019, 6:09 pm

smudge wrote:
I'm disillusioned with WP. The members here who think what they do in some of pages of that thread, Appeal for peace & calm - I have no idea how you lot can possibly think the way you do. How B19 can live with herself for not letting anyone say anything against Fnord in his thread, and it wasn't even in the Haven. How can any of you live with yourselves? You lot are either horrible people, or completely clueless. Either way, I want nothing to do with most of you anymore. I had no idea how bad most of you were. Yes I am no angel, but I try my best to be nice to others, even if that includes telling my friends what they are doing is wrong to someone else.

I've wanted to help people. It's in my veins. It's not happening here anymore. No constructive criticism.


To clarify with some facts: I removed two reported posts on the final page, created by the same member, which were a very clear breach of the rules. If someone posted that you Smudge were worse than a cockroach or a filthy rat, I would remove their posts too. You will have noticed that the thread was not removed, and plenty of people said unpleasant things toward the OP.

I know that you don't have access to the full facts, and that may be why you have posted this.



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28 Oct 2019, 7:13 pm

domineekee wrote:
... Fnord, you say you're tired and that you've changed.
I actually do wish Smudge well.


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28 Oct 2019, 7:18 pm

Fnord wrote:
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... Fnord, you say you're tired and that you've changed.
I actually do wish Smudge well.

People are repeatedly asking you to change your tone when posting in the haven. It's causing many other members upset. "Bye!" Comes across as insincere, in case you hadn't realised.



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28 Oct 2019, 7:36 pm

I agree with Domineekee, Fnord. The exclamation mark was an unfortunate choice in my view, because its addition changes the whole tone of your post.



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28 Oct 2019, 7:42 pm

Fnord wrote:
'Bye! Stay Safe! Stay Well!


Note for mods: this is disingenuous BS.


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28 Oct 2019, 7:43 pm

Fnord wrote:
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... Fnord, you say you're tired and that you've changed.
I actually do wish Smudge well.


We wish you were not here.


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28 Oct 2019, 7:47 pm

Lets give Fnord the benefit of the doubt and spell it out to him clearly, he is after all autistic. It might come across as insincere and sadistic.



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28 Oct 2019, 7:57 pm

He posted the exact same things in my thread word for word.

It's really unwise of Fnord, if he has as much engineering background as he says he does, I'm the type of guy who could make him a very wealthy man. The guy is sitting on a gold mine calling it a landfill.


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29 Oct 2019, 1:38 am

You know, it's not even just about Fnord anymore, but the attitudes here people have. The old time members even got to me with their attitudes about SaveFerris (this isn't all about him either) and their lack of compassion for him, and the other vulnerable members here. It's such a severe attitude that people have and really I have no will to be here anymore because of the membership here. I'm not like most of you obviously and I don't want to be associated with such people.


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