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12 Sep 2019, 6:52 pm

From now on, any time my father gives me a hard time, I'm just gonna use this thread. I've had it with the guy. I make one small honest mistake, and he's drunk, angry, pins me to the stairs, and starts screaming at me until I scream "GET WAY FROM ME! GET AWAY FROM ME! GET AWAY FROM ME!"
One day later, I'm walking the dog and he says something about tying the leash around my neck and choking me. I want to call the police sometimes.


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12 Sep 2019, 7:43 pm

I'm so sorry you're going through that. Remember, the Bible also tells parents not to provoke their children. So, he's wrong to be mean to you.


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12 Sep 2019, 7:43 pm

Then call the police. What's stopping you?


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12 Sep 2019, 8:22 pm

The statement about the leash is a Mandated Reporter violation

You have to do what you find necessary to make yourself less in danger

If you want please call 911



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12 Sep 2019, 8:27 pm

Drinking brings out the worst in people. I thank God every day I don't drink.


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12 Sep 2019, 8:44 pm

Fnord wrote:
Then call the police. What's stopping you?

He's been in lockup before after a DUI. If I call the police and he spends time in lockup drunken uncontrollable anger issues, he'll actually kill me when he gets home. He's threatened to kill me more than once. Sometimes he doesn't mean it or never follows through but he has said that if I ever sent him to prison, he'll come back and kill me.


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12 Sep 2019, 8:45 pm

Persephone29 wrote:
I'm so sorry you're going through that. Remember, the Bible also tells parents not to provoke their children. So, he's wrong to be mean to you.

He doesn't believe in god. He only believes in the god in himself and that no other god I pray to can stop him when he comes after me.


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13 Sep 2019, 6:11 am

Why do you still live with him if he's so dangerous? 8O

If you're too disabled to live on your own, try to find some disability service that could help you to find another place.



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14 Sep 2019, 5:31 am

Fireblossom wrote:
Why do you still live with him if he's so dangerous? 8O

If you're too disabled to live on your own, try to find some disability service that could help you to find another place.


This ^^
Please find a way to move out for your own safety. Or physically get yourself away from him, if you're able to.



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14 Sep 2019, 1:01 pm

EDGAR_54 wrote:
Fireblossom wrote:
Why do you still live with him if he's so dangerous? 8O

If you're too disabled to live on your own, try to find some disability service that could help you to find another place.


This ^^
Please find a way to move out for your own safety. Or physically get yourself away from him, if you're able to.

Exactly. You need to work your way out of this toxic situation.


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19 Sep 2019, 3:21 pm

Sounds like his head could use a little percussive maintenance. :wink:


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29 Nov 2019, 5:59 pm

Hate to bring this thread up again, but something interesting happened. I think my father is secretly a racist. Coming from a redneck family, there's no surprise. He was in the garage for 15 hours drinking and came up stairs and yelled at me for eating the last of the turkey. Well excuse me for eating lunch and besides, there wasn't much left and he should've been upstairs earlier if he wanted some. He's making PB&J sandwiches and complaining about how I'm such a screw up in this family. He tells me to get a "jobby job". That's not going to happen because I can't function on normal people's standards. Then he talks about sending me to live with my grandparents since they're having money troubles and being their N-word. Seriously, he's so mad, he refers me to the N-word or some kind of indentured servitude. I'm white for god's sake. I wish that man would have another heart attack and actually DIE this time!


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30 Nov 2019, 3:31 am

Fireblossom wrote:
Why do you still live with him if he's so dangerous? 8O

If you're too disabled to live on your own, try to find some disability service that could help you to find another place.

This again.
Let's explore possibilities of getting away from him.


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