Saw another guy harassing his girlfriend

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I had to go to a gas station for a drink twice because I accidentally spilled mine the first time. When I went to get a refill, a couple we’re at the fountain. The guy was getting drinks filled while his girlfriend sat on the counter. The guy was also coming on to his girlfriend while she snarled at him to stop and lightly pushed him but he persisted and she let him commit PDA on her.

I keep seeing incidents like this and it just completely baffles me why some guys do this crap and why some women welcome it. I was always told to be a gentleman around women and PDA was bad behavior yet I keep seeing guys act like jerks with their girlfriends and PDA is a constant sight in my social observations. Sure, these people were rather young looking (both also had their hair dyed red) and it may have been a reflection of immaturity but it still boggles my mind.

Does that mean he groped her? If so that's terrible.

omg!!

I honestly felt my head get hot witnessing this spectacle. It was exasperating seeing another “jerk” with a girlfriend and they weren’t being considerate to other patrons.

I think so. It has happened to me.

Did any of the employees do anything about it?

If I asked the guys that groped me to stop, they probably would have. One guy that I was going out with groped me and I got mad at him and he didn't do it again. When we had a course on sexual assault at our school the other guy learned that what he was doing was wrong. I have also been pushed into having sex by two different guys which is getting close to rape. There has also been some other cases where I would ask the guys to leave me alone and they wouldn't. I don't think it matters where you live if you are a woman. If you are born female, you are going to have to deal with creeps.

It's nice to have some men that look down on the bad behavior of other men.

Did he see you? If so, sometimes in couples, the guy or the girl will see another person, who had no interest in their mate, they get jealous.

There has been a few times where I have had other women see me by myself and they will start badmouthing me by telling them how ugly I am. Other times, they get pouty.

Basically, it's none of our business* - adult women are adults.

And for those who stick to sh***y men, they deserve those sh***y men.


* (unless something criminal is happening, like rape or outrageous sexual harassing, but in your case it seems like some phony dom-sub pda play)

Seeing incidents like what happened recently also further tells me being nice isn’t appreciated where I live.

It doesn’t mean you have to be a jerk.

It takes strength not to be a jerk.

I’m turning 32, though, and I am still no different than I was when I was 17. I was told I was going to create self-fulfilling prophecies for myself but I didn’t know how to avoid making them happen.