And the bullcrap never ends...

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This is Angnix reporting live from finally my own place... dealing with bull you know what far too much...

So I was suppose to stay at my uncle's house longer to help his roommate recover from a surgery he had yesterday... but my uncle wanted me to let his grandson and his girlfriend stay at my place AGAIN and buy them stuff AGAIN even after what just happened... even my manager knew about it and said they could not stay there anymore... anyway I told my uncle they couldn't stay here... well he threw a huge fit... and even his daughter my cousin was threatening to call the police... on ME!! ! She said I didn't respect her dad.... but my cousin's idea of respect is obeying everything her father tells me and I had it... I left and went back to my place... where incredibly my uncle messaged me begging to come back because his car doesn't have insurance and my vehicle does have insurance on it and I left him there with no legal vehicle... well boo hoo hooo... seriously I called the social worker again. I'm tired of my uncle telling me what to do... he bars me from getting a job too... he even got involved in my love life when I found out my my friend really loved me but my uncle convinced him I'd be a terrible mother (he wants children someday) so now he's not looking for me as a love partner anymore... thanks a lot uncle!! ! Now I hate you...

Hugs!
Leave your bully uncle behind. You have no obligations to him after all his abuse.

The happiest times in my life were when I lived far away from him...... and I had my own life and I was completely taking care of myself.... I have the full capability of living an autonomous life if I am not stressed out too much... stress for me causes severe meltdowns which is unfortunate and right now I'm under so much stress...

I don't know what to do.... I have this apartment and it's a two bedroom and I can add someone on my lease if I find the right person but it's less than 10 miles from my abusive relatives... I don't know if I should stay here and still try to avoid them as much as possible while getting a roommate, or if I should try to get out of my lease somehow... I mean this is such a lovely apartment for less than 200 a month based on income but I don't know if I can deal with my uncle and certain other relatives anymore.

*This is the bullcrap that never ends, it goes on and on my friend, somebody started saying it not knowing what it was, and they continue spreading it forever just because...*

Bored...

But seriously dude... they are trying to get me to go back there... just because Angnix to them needs to be a good little slave... sorry but not sorry... I've developed a major attitude lately, don't mess with me anymore... lol

Your uncle is toxic.

Stay away. Even if he admits he's been a horrible person and asks for help, call help for him and stay away. He knows where the bus stop is or he has the number for the cab company.

So ummm... My case manager wants me to have a payee so my uncle/relatives cannot take advantage of me... I'm not really comfortable with that idea though because I had a bad experience in the past with someone managing my money... But my case manager is being very persistent about this....

My uncle has a reputation of taking advantage of people, and using any manipulate tactic he can... He did all sorts of crap after his mother's head injury... After his wife left him he did it to his new girlfriend and this lady recognized what was going on more than once and left him, but just kept coming back... Her son, his new roommate, same crap but he seems to let it happen so I don't think I can help him very much... Plus I'll admit him and the guy I love IS THE SAME PERSON... And I told them about his general inappropriateness and they said he needs to tone down talking to girls like that because he's on probation still and could get in trouble.... Flirting is probably okay... But ummm the crude jokes need to stop and I'm about to talk to him about it... Because things he says makes me more uncomfortable than he realizes... Anyway to get back on track lol... Advice???

Run away from both. Really. You get attracted to the familiar but this familiar is abuse.

Who did manage your money before and what were your experiences about it?

What do independent ministries do?