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anyone else have issues with partners messing with your food?

its one of the primary reasons my relationships end

men insist on telling me what to eat

stop messing with my dinner

I will leave

food is better than sex for me

What reasons do they give for messing with your food?

Food can be a problem in relationships.
My partner cooks and I eat it
As nice as that is, and it's delicious food
its not what I would normally eat if left to my own devices
And it messes with my insides, unfortunately
But it's so freaking deliciously amazing, I continue to eat it
Because I would rather give them the pleasure of pleasing me
Than eat what I want to eat
Though I miss those missing elements in my diet.

I would still choose sex.

I don't like people telling me what to eat....

I always though sharing food was stupid, eat your own food, it's the same thing on my plate. Same with the wedding cake ritual, wtf?

"According to researcher Paul Rozin and colleagues from Columbia University, there are four different levels of food sharing that express to observers how romantic you are with your significant other: no sharing, sharing voluntarily, sharing with consubstantiation (situations in which your partner eats food that you have already touched) and feeding."

Someone who is very much into food once had me help them cook a meal. I over-cooked the pasta slightly and they got upset out of proportion to the offense. Never again.