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18 Nov 2021, 5:00 pm

Everyone owns me. The "mental health" system owns me, my parents own me even though I'm an an adult, and the organized crime in my town owns me. In other words, it's always what everyone else wants. Not what I want out of life. How do I stop this...I have fantasies of moving to a place where the locals aren't so naive about crime, and where it's not the culture for locals to be argumentative people, like my parents and half the population where I live. :( :eew:



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18 Nov 2021, 8:01 pm

Sorry you’re going through this.

What “organized crime”?



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18 Nov 2021, 9:55 pm

I’m kind of scared to talk about it. It’s a shady business deal. I over heard it and started gossiping about it in my community. No one believes me though. They don’t think anything like that can happen where I live. But anyway I didn’t take into account how many people from all over the world come to my province to get away from everything. That includes the a**holes that have been stalking and harassing me and making threats and messing with my head. Pretty sure they don’t want me to tell the authorities what they did. I mean it was pretty bad. Doubt the cops up here would get it anyway. It’s an American matter...



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19 Nov 2021, 5:25 am

raise Ann eyebrow



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19 Nov 2021, 5:34 am

tell em to tit erf



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19 Nov 2021, 10:24 pm

I mean do you think these gangsters are monitoring this forum?



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19 Nov 2021, 10:29 pm

I don't want to tell you the wrong thing cause I don't know anything about this sort of thing, but I'm sure if you found a female member on here to private message, you could talk about it without having to worry about, especially if they're from say Germany and not Canada or the US



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20 Nov 2021, 1:28 pm

Take control and accept that you have your own path to live. Whether you realise it or not at this point, you have choices. There is no greater joy than living your life on your own terms, making your own choices.



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20 Nov 2021, 2:35 pm

OutUponATreeBranch wrote:
I mean do you think these gangsters are monitoring this forum?


Lol. Sure hope not.



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20 Nov 2021, 2:39 pm

Juliette wrote:
Take control and accept that you have your own path to live. Whether you realise it or not at this point, you have choices. There is no greater joy than living your life on your own terms, making your own choices.


Thank you!



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20 Nov 2021, 2:46 pm

I thought I was mature enough but then life keeps testing me it seems, making me require to grow up fast. I’ll get back to you guys if their threatening and stalking continues. Thank you for the support.



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20 Nov 2021, 7:18 pm

Sarahsmith wrote:
I’m kind of scared to talk about it. It’s a shady business deal. I over heard it and started gossiping about it in my community. No one believes me though. They don’t think anything like that can happen where I live. But anyway I didn’t take into account how many people from all over the world come to my province to get away from everything. That includes the as*holes that have been stalking and harassing me and making threats and messing with my head. Pretty sure they don’t want me to tell the authorities what they did. I mean it was pretty bad. Doubt the cops up here would get it anyway. It’s an American matter...

If you don't feel unsafe telling this, what country do you live in? It seems to me that any truly useful advice anyone could give you here would likely be country-specific.


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22 Nov 2021, 2:04 pm

Canada.

The cops are too slow to be able to deal with this crap. I wish we had something like the FBI up here that could investigate. The cops did briefly do a bit of investigating but since I was hysterical they just took me to the mental hospital and I lost my human rights.

I’m too creeped out to even talk about this here. I don’t like social media all that much anymore anyway. I remember when people talked to me in real life. I miss those times.



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23 Nov 2021, 1:29 am

Sarahsmith wrote:
Canada.

The cops are too slow to be able to deal with this crap. I wish we had something like the FBI up here that could investigate. The cops did briefly do a bit of investigating but since I was hysterical they just took me to the mental hospital and I lost my human rights.

Ugh! That's awful.

At least you are still able to talk to us here on WP. I hope they don't take that away from you!

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I’m too creeped out to even talk about this here. I don’t like social media all that much anymore anyway. I remember when people talked to me in real life. I miss those times.

WP is probably a safer place to talk about it than social media. But, if you choose to tell us more about your situation, I would strongly advise you to ask the moderators to move this thread to the "Members Only" area, so it can't be seen by non-members, e.g. via Google.


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24 Nov 2021, 12:25 pm

Can you do that for me Mona? I suck at using this site and don’t have internet at home and it’s hard to concentrate because I’m in public. If not I’ll just go to members only when they do it again.



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24 Nov 2021, 3:20 pm

Only the Moderators could move a thread to another subforum.