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MuddRM
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09 Mar 2022, 10:02 pm

Sylkat wrote:

I have been hospitalized three times since December 29th.
E.R., SICU,two different observation floors.
Every test I ever heard of; I’m home, limited activity, SIX pills a day!

I have worked full time at my job for over ten years.
I got ONE call from a co-worker, no get well card at all, no good wishes on email.
I am surprised how much that hurts.
:cry:

Story of my life. When ever I got sick, no one bothered visiting me at home or in the hospital. Last time I was in the hospital, 7 years ago, I had exactly 3 people visit me while in ICU, and only my pastor after I came home. Ditto when I gave up driving.

Misslizard
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09 Mar 2022, 10:14 pm

Pepe wrote:

Misslizard wrote:

/\Braggart.lol

BTW, I don't give <hugs> to just anyone.
Consider yourself very lucky if one comes your way.

I’d rather have a gift card.Then I would go to the nursery and buy roses to plant.
I tend to bite when hugged anyway.

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Sylkat
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09 Mar 2022, 10:34 pm

Thank you so much
It really helps

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justkillingtime
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09 Mar 2022, 10:43 pm

We care about you. :heart:

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Erjoy29
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09 Mar 2022, 11:10 pm

I’m sorry.

Yeah, I go through this and similar from time to time.

I know at last work places, whenever I leave, people say “I wish you the best” but there wouldn’t be much emotion behind it. Some indifference. Not nearly as enthusiastic as other people leaving. I bet if I were hospitalized, I would get nothing.

I find my own very significant peace and self love. That is really how I get by most of the time…

1986
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10 Mar 2022, 12:06 am

It sucks when you think you're on good terms with people, then something happens and you realize they couldn't care less about you. One way (that's not ideal, but works) is to set your expectations really low. At least you won't get disappointed if nobody shows up, and pleasantly surprised if somebody does.

Regardless, you have people in this community (including me) who care about you and your hardships. Wishing the best.

AprilR
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10 Mar 2022, 12:27 am

I am sorry. I wish we didn't have the need to connect with people sometimes. I am here for you if you want to talk and hope that you get well soon.

Pepe
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10 Mar 2022, 12:34 am

Misslizard wrote:

Pepe wrote:

Misslizard wrote:

/\Braggart.lol

BTW, I don't give <hugs> to just anyone.
Consider yourself very lucky if one comes your way.

I’d rather have a gift card.Then I would go to the nursery and buy roses to plant.
I tend to bite when hugged anyway.

I will remember to bring my dog's muzzle. :mrgreen:

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10 Mar 2022, 12:35 am

justkillingtime wrote:

We care about you. :heart:

I care more than everyone else put together.

Misslizard
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10 Mar 2022, 1:30 pm

You must have a very large dog.

Pepe wrote:

Misslizard wrote:

Pepe wrote:

Misslizard wrote:

/\Braggart.lol

BTW, I don't give <hugs> to just anyone.
Consider yourself very lucky if one comes your way.

I’d rather have a gift card.Then I would go to the nursery and buy roses to plant.
I tend to bite when hugged anyway.

I will remember to bring my dog's muzzle. :mrgreen:

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Pepe
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11 Mar 2022, 1:04 am

Sylkat wrote:

Thank you so much
It really helps

OK, I'm fully charged now.
Wait for it:

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Pepe
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11 Mar 2022, 1:06 am

Misslizard wrote:

You must have a very large dog.

I do.

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Sylkat
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11 Mar 2022, 2:05 am

Dear Pepe,
Can we see a picture of your dog?

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Pepe
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12 Mar 2022, 12:52 am

Sylkat wrote:

Dear Pepe,
Can we see a picture of your dog?

PM sent.

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12 Mar 2022, 7:50 pm

I hope things will soon get better for you, Sylkat.

:heart:

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13 Mar 2022, 12:53 am

I don't mind not working but I get bored

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