Ever feel like the victim of a cosmic cruel joke?

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I've had things happen which are like a cruel joke consistently
E.g.
-running 3000 miles away from a bad situation with a narcissist, then the next time I live in a house...its with a narcissist again.


-Being stuck in a foreign country as an illegal alien, someone offered me help and assured me it was easy, I then injured my legs so I couldn't walk to his house and lost contact with him

-being in love with someone.. being engaged to them... then after two weeks of being engaged they suddenly become indifferent and cold...then act interested.. then cold
This sends me into a depression which lasted longer than the whole relationship, so it would have been better if we had never met.

-getting the job of my dreams then losing it about three weeks later

-meeting an attractive woman ,she shows inordinate interest,she talks about marriage and kids on the first date, but the next day takes six hours to answer a text, and then just sends cold disinterested texts
(About ten similar incidents like this)

-a friend offered to train me for a career fixing electric scooters. I went into his repair shop for 40 hours a week for four weeks. He made excuses about not training me , it turns out he was just a narcissist trying to provoke me into getting angry at him , by wasting my time.


-having a prophet tell me that something really good is going to happen to me 'soon' but over a year later.... And it didn't happen



I'm just thinking 'what's next???' Now

At many times in my life , it’s seems clearly , that I can relate to this posting .

well its narcissist central recently

try not to let things get you down petal

I know, easier said than done x

and what is love bombing?

I can get over excited...when I'm not being boring and intellectual

I love intellectual by the way.

was smart once...many eons ago

my life is the twilight zone lately

but my message box is open

*clears throat*

My luck probably isn't the best around, but then, if you come out the other end of things alive, endure things, maybe it could be good luck? I ponder this often. If I can still see and feel the good things when I've seen and felt so many bad things, then I guess I can consider myself a bit of both. Lucky and unlucky.

people are a mystery. and that is being charitable.

I will be suspicious of anyone I meet now. The other things that happened are like circumstances messing me up which is concerning.

and THAT is the worst thing that these people do to innocents, poisoning the pool for decent people who now are blocked from consideration as friends due to the mistrust caused by these bad actors.