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Kitty4670
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23 Jun 2022, 7:09 pm

She is in the hospital, they bringing her home tonight, she wants to die at home with her family with her. This bringing up bad memories when my mom was in the hospital. I need my friends.


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23 Jun 2022, 7:35 pm

Oh dear. Sorry.


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23 Jun 2022, 7:59 pm

I'm so sorry, I can only imagine how you are feeling.



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23 Jun 2022, 8:16 pm

I'm sorry your grandmother is going through this. And I'm sorry you're going through this.



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23 Jun 2022, 9:25 pm

Thanks :D She is old, she is 93. When she goes to heaven, she will be reunited with her mother, her daughter-iin-law, her son-in-law & two of her daughters.


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23 Jun 2022, 9:49 pm

Yeah, sorry for you there, Kitty4670. Hopefully it doesn't cause too much upset for you.

It's nice to spend those last moments with family and/or friends. Hoping she sees the light one last time.



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23 Jun 2022, 9:57 pm

I am glad she is getting her wish to die at home. Not everybody dies where they want to, nor do most people make it to 93 years old.

As others have said I am sorry you have to go through this.


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23 Jun 2022, 10:29 pm

Sending hugs Kitty.

I hope you get to spend some time with her, and you can tell her how much she is loved.



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24 Jun 2022, 4:54 am

I’m so sorry, Kitty. It is a difficult time, but an important one. Stay alive to being with her while she is there, if you can. *hugs*


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24 Jun 2022, 2:57 pm

My grandmother died today, I didn’t say goodbye.


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24 Jun 2022, 3:01 pm

I'm so sorry, Kitty, that you weren't able to say goodbye.

I hope she didn't die in pain.



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24 Jun 2022, 4:40 pm

You had memories with her though when she was here. She's in a better place now and she's probably very happy and wishes the same for you down here.



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24 Jun 2022, 4:41 pm

I’m sorry, dear. This happens far more frequently, at least in this country, than one would think. So don’t feel guilt about it. Your grandmother knows you love her and that is what counts.


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24 Jun 2022, 8:11 pm

I had dream that she died & my aunt & my mom came to take her heaven. This was before I learned that she died today. I wasn’t feeling good earlier, I was sooo sad & crying, I took a nap, I feel better now.


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24 Jun 2022, 9:54 pm

Condolences


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25 Jun 2022, 12:21 am

I'm saddened to hear your news Kitty.
Hopefully she passed peacefully and she's now at rest.
My thoughts are with you and your family.