Seriously, why is there so much Misogyny on WrongPlanet?!
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I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.
I'm pretty involved in L&D lately and I've never heard of an agenda for report spamming. I can tell you that honestly. Recently, we were encouraged to report problem behaviours with groomers etc., but I don't know of anyone who has seen that type of behaviour or reported anything since. I think a lot of people might feel paranoid about the topic especially now that we have this thread but really, the rules haven't changed and I don't know of anything that's happening out of the ordinary.
Another point I'd make though, is that the misogyny or misandry (sexism - including transphobia and homophobia) which was mentioned by the OP in this thread doesn't just happen in L&D when it happens. It's often in News because of stats that are published about marriage or dating. It's sometimes in The Haven even though we can't respond to those posts the same way we might in L&D. Sometimes it's in PPR, as we saw last summer with R v Wade. It's everywhere, when it does happen. It's not like it's only contained in L&D. Also, some people have said they checked out L&D and it looked OK going by thread titles, but unless you read every post in every thread we can't tell just by glancing at the titles or guessing what's inside.
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I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has.
Doesn't that make us a coalition?
I guess it does.
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I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has.
That means the skunk was right.
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If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
I can't tell if you're being serious or just trolling. Who exactly are you replying to?
I only read the OP, so, the OP.
They complain that sexless guys complain about being sexless guys, but unless you're a sexless guy you can't possibly comprehend why they complain. The only humans I've met that can truly see both sides of the coin are trans-masc guys on Testosterone HRT. Once they go from AFAB to Trans-Masc on T they have a true comprehension of the biological male's sexual urges and why sexless guys complain about not being able to obtain sex.
Others need to have these things explained to them because they cannot experience them.
I have been saying until I'm blue in the balls face that a major problem for young men is their testosterone levels.
Not rocket surgery.
"Men are from Mars."
Women have a problem understanding this.
No names.
I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.
I'm pretty involved in L&D lately and I've never heard of an agenda for report spamming.
I wasn't referring to L&D.
It was publically stated elsewhere.
But the strategy does exist.
It doesn't take that much effort, just a lot of hate.
I have no doubt that there are people reviewing every single post I make to find something they can complain about.
I wouldn't be the only one.
You may have noticed that I do get followed from forum to forum.
No names.
I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.
I'm pretty involved in L&D lately and I've never heard of an agenda for report spamming.
I wasn't referring to L&D.
It was publically stated elsewhere.
But the strategy does exist.
It doesn't take that much effort, just a lot of hate.
I have no doubt that there are people reviewing every single post I make to find something they can complain about.
I wouldn't be the only one.
You may have noticed that I do get followed from forum to forum.
Honestly -- I haven't noticed that.
I don't see anyone following you except for your interactions with Rexi.
I've had my share of trolls lately and over the years but I'm not feeling it now or recently.
It feels like WP got a lot of the bad energy out of its system somehow and things are calming down.
That's my take anyway.
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Glad that's totally cleared up!
What exactly do whiny, bitter misogynists have to do with evolutionary biology?
Are you saying it's evolutionary biology that makes some men buy into incorrect notions of how easy it is for all women to get laid?
It IS easier for women to get laid. Almost always, regardless of species, it's the male who does the pursuing and the female who decides whether or not to hook up with him.
This isn't opinion or bias, this is biological fact. Take a look around at the world or watch National Geographic for a while.
Things being easier for an entire category of people doesn't mean it's easier for every single individual within that category.
I'm pretty sure he didn't suggest that.
The point is, there are times when it isn't misogyny, just frustration and despair.
Stomping your foot and ignoring the realities of life aren't helpful either.
Were you ever a young man?
And, no, I am not defending misogyny.
2. I never said I condoned extremism or hatred. I said I understand why these guys are sexually frustrated and vent about it.
No need to say this.
I posted the same after you did.
2. I never said I condoned extremism or hatred. I said I understand why these guys are sexually frustrated and vent about it.
It doesn't matter whether you claim to condone it or not though. Acting like hatred is a normal reaction to being sexually rejected is quite literally normalizing the behaviour.
Acting like the poor coping mechanism is normal, natural and inevitable amounts to condoning the coping mechanism.
Saying we need to have more understanding of those who display the poor coping mechanism amounts to condoning the coping mechanism.
Read our lips:
No one is saying that.
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If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
I can't tell if you're being serious or just trolling. Who exactly are you replying to?
I only read the OP, so, the OP.
They complain that sexless guys complain about being sexless guys, but unless you're a sexless guy you can't possibly comprehend why they complain. The only humans I've met that can truly see both sides of the coin are trans-masc guys on Testosterone HRT. Once they go from AFAB to Trans-Masc on T they have a true comprehension of the biological male's sexual urges and why sexless guys complain about not being able to obtain sex.
Others need to have these things explained to them because they cannot experience them.
I have been saying until I'm blue in the balls face that a major problem for young men is their testosterone levels.
Not rocket surgery.
"Men are from Mars."
Women have a problem understanding this.
But I am from Titan.
Apart from Boo ( ), most of us are human beings from the planet Earth. Men aren't from Mars; women aren't from Venus. We are people who aren't really that different from each other. Being lonely is difficult - I know something about that, but we can't blame other people for it. We can rant and complain about our loneliness in The Haven. However, it crosses a line when people make bitter posts about the "opposite" sex or when people dismiss the struggles of other genders.
Having "testosterone" is not a valid excuse for misogynistic ranting (or other forms of crummy behavior). If I feel like a post crosses a line, I will continue to report it. If it's not deemed problematic, nothing will be done about my report. People only need to worry about reporting if they are writing problematic posts/threads.
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I'm not sure I know what you mean by report spamming. A post can only be reported once so no spamming can be done on a single post.
Do you mean some of a members posts are reported by a 'coalition' who target posts regardless of content?
I don't really see this as an issue except as you say - more work for the mods.
Seeing as no one knows if any of their posts has been reported or just spotted by a mod it's not something worth living in your head rent-free.
I'll get back to you on that, or we could discuss it by email.
I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has.
Doesn't EVERYONE do that due to rampant paranoia?
No names.
I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.
I'm pretty involved in L&D lately and I've never heard of an agenda for report spamming. I can tell you that honestly. Recently, we were encouraged to report problem behaviours with groomers etc., but I don't know of anyone who has seen that type of behaviour or reported anything since. I think a lot of people might feel paranoid about the topic especially now that we have this thread but really, the rules haven't changed and I don't know of anything that's happening out of the ordinary.
Another point I'd make though, is that the misogyny or misandry (sexism - including transphobia and homophobia) which was mentioned by the OP in this thread doesn't just happen in L&D when it happens. It's often in News because of stats that are published about marriage or dating. It's sometimes in The Haven even though we can't respond to those posts the same way we might in L&D. Sometimes it's in PPR, as we saw last summer with R v Wade. It's everywhere, when it does happen. It's not like it's only contained in L&D. Also, some people have said they checked out L&D and it looked OK going by thread titles, but unless you read every post in every thread we can't tell just by glancing at the titles or guessing what's inside.
Is it the same group of members doing this? On the topic of Roe v Wade, I'd imagine it might come from some conservative members like AngelRho.
No names.
I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.
I'm pretty involved in L&D lately and I've never heard of an agenda for report spamming. I can tell you that honestly. Recently, we were encouraged to report problem behaviours with groomers etc., but I don't know of anyone who has seen that type of behaviour or reported anything since. I think a lot of people might feel paranoid about the topic especially now that we have this thread but really, the rules haven't changed and I don't know of anything that's happening out of the ordinary.
Another point I'd make though, is that the misogyny or misandry (sexism - including transphobia and homophobia) which was mentioned by the OP in this thread doesn't just happen in L&D when it happens. It's often in News because of stats that are published about marriage or dating. It's sometimes in The Haven even though we can't respond to those posts the same way we might in L&D. Sometimes it's in PPR, as we saw last summer with R v Wade. It's everywhere, when it does happen. It's not like it's only contained in L&D. Also, some people have said they checked out L&D and it looked OK going by thread titles, but unless you read every post in every thread we can't tell just by glancing at the titles or guessing what's inside.
Is it the same group of members doing this? On the topic of Roe v Wade, I'd imagine it might come from some conservative members like AngelRho.
There are definite cliques, yes.
No names.