29 Mar 2023, 10:56 am
First I've heard of it, and I get to read the reports made.
Interesting. Despite being a response to me, I never said anything about report spamming. I was referring to accusations made against people in the actual thread. They may or may not actually report them.
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29 Mar 2023, 12:25 pm
Are you an autistic guy/amab with accompanying hormones and the lack of social skills to obtain the sex you're biologically wired to seek?
If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
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29 Mar 2023, 12:44 pm
If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
How much more empathy should be shown?
At what point does sexual frustration start to excuse misogyny?
A group can't really seek unity with members who choose to be toxic. As long as that choice is being made there's no point in seeking unity. In that context unity is synonymous with forcing everyone else to tolerate their toxicity.
Balance; somewhere in the middle.
Incels need to learn not to be as*holes. But others also need to accept that autistic incel males are simply going to have some complaints about themselves and their sexless lives.
It’s a give/take thing - neither side should expect 100% of what they want or how they think communications should go.
IMO.
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29 Mar 2023, 12:51 pm
If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
How much more empathy should be shown?
At what point does sexual frustration start to excuse misogyny?
A group can't really seek unity with members who choose to be toxic. As long as that choice is being made there's no point in seeking unity. In that context unity is synonymous with forcing everyone else to tolerate their toxicity.
Balance; somewhere in the middle.
Incels need to learn not to be as*holes. But others also need to accept that autistic incel males are simply going to have some complaints about themselves and their sexless lives.
It’s a give/take thing - neither side should expect 100% of what they want or how they think communications should go.
IMO.
The problem comes from how often the complaint boils down to blaming others for the complainant not receiving the sex they feel entitled to. The wording of the complaints regularly implies a sense of entitlement even if it's later denied.
People want to vent their bitter resentments but don't like being recognized as bitter and resentful (even when venting those resentments is their main topic to post about) but how the f**k else do they expect to be viewed?
29 Mar 2023, 12:57 pm
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29 Mar 2023, 1:00 pm
Maybe there are just a lot more guys on the internet because girls are busy getting as much sex as they want ? 
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29 Mar 2023, 1:05 pm
Ummm… No.
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29 Mar 2023, 1:11 pm
But why are there gay men online? Shouldn't they be too busy getting all the sex they want and then some?
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29 Mar 2023, 1:16 pm
But why are there gay men online? Shouldn't they be too busy getting all the sex they want and then some?
We're online during the day, depending on our schedules/occupations and how we like to waste our time in between casual sex. Prime time for hooking up on Grindr is 9-11pm.
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29 Mar 2023, 1:17 pm
That's a sexist assumption.
That's a homophobic assumption.
Bravo to both of you.
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29 Mar 2023, 1:19 pm
If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.
Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.
IMO.
I can't tell if you're being serious or just trolling. Who exactly are you replying to?
I only read the OP, so, the OP.
They complain that sexless guys complain about being sexless guys, but unless you're a sexless guy you can't possibly comprehend why they complain. The only humans I've met that can truly see both sides of the coin are trans-masc guys on Testosterone HRT. Once they go from AFAB to Trans-Masc on T they have a true comprehension of the biological male's sexual urges and why sexless guys complain about not being able to obtain sex.
Others need to have these things explained to them because they cannot experience them.
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29 Mar 2023, 1:19 pm
But why are there gay men online? Shouldn't they be too busy getting all the sex they want and then some?
We're online during the day, depending on our schedules/occupations and how we like to waste our time in between casual sex. Prime time for hooking up on Grindr is 9-11pm.
I'm glad you got it as a joke but you still kinda missed the point.
It's a dumb stereotype, people shouldn't allow themselves to be informed by dumb stereotypes.
Even if you're just kidding, trotting out the stereotype that women can always get some no matter what doesn't help make any serious point but it does help OP and others make their point about how widespread misogyny is, even on here.
29 Mar 2023, 1:20 pm
I've been known to post in Leap Frog, or post music while having sex.
Does that help the stats? 
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29 Mar 2023, 1:21 pm
That's a sexist assumption.
That's a homophobic assumption.
Bravo to both of you.
It was intended to be. I was mirroring his assumption.
