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20 Aug 2007, 4:17 pm

Anyone else have this problem living with their parents? During a fight, they would tell me to leave then later that day I just walk back in the house and they dont say anything to me. Thats the way it usually goes anyway.



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20 Aug 2007, 5:21 pm

Well, how fortunate for you.


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20 Aug 2007, 6:25 pm

I know its good to be able to come back, I wouldnt have anywhere else to go and they know it. Its still a pain in the ass though.



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20 Aug 2007, 6:28 pm

It's not too early to start thinking about being on your own, just thinking, planning.


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20 Aug 2007, 6:35 pm

Ive been making plans, but as usual Im afraid that something will go wrong sending me back to point A.. Guess thats just normal though, hope it doesnt get in the way too much.



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20 Aug 2007, 7:50 pm

you are very fortunate to have a point A. Try to make it easier for them every chance you get. It can't be easy for them, either.



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20 Aug 2007, 7:55 pm

Username, it is highlt possible that me and you and Boof1988 will end up living together someplace. I jsut need to get with an Aspie support group so that I can get some other girls to live with us too. Then I'll tell both of you to come up and meet me at the support group the next time we meet, which will be VERY SOON. I know you can find something to do for now, you can talk to me aass often as you want. Spill your guts, spill your whole life. Send long whiny PMs, I love em. :)



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20 Aug 2007, 8:16 pm

I dont normally tend to send long whiny pms, but since you insist... :lol:

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Well my parents have changed a lot, for the good. Im not really complaining about them in that way, Im just saying its a pain having to deal with them like it is with any parent. Its really hard for me to deal with though. When I was much younger however, things were quite the opposite. Point A was very hard to get back to indeed. But it doesnt matter to me anymore, the past is the past.



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20 Aug 2007, 8:55 pm

username88 wrote:
I dont normally tend to send long whiny pms, but since you insist... :lol:

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Well my parents have changed a lot, for the good. Im not really complaining about them in that way, Im just saying its a pain having to deal with them like it is with any parent. Its really hard for me to deal with though. When I was much younger however, things were quite the opposite. Point A was very hard to get back to indeed. But it doesnt matter to me anymore, the past is the past.


yeah, I know how folks can be. It's good to think about streaching out and finding your own way, too. Espcially if they are going to benefit themselves from the family spreading out. The future is the future, too. :wink:

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Merle