dichotomous thinking, being too judgmental

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it gets on my nerves how precious lil "people" have the nerve to say "cool" this and "sucks" that and "why" this.

they act so judgmental.

they act like they are so awesome that they have the moral "right" to veto anything that is not "cool" with them.

they act like they have a moral "right" to be happy at all times and any time they are not "happy" it "proves" that someone violated their stupid lil "rights". but nobody has a "right" to be happy. "you have a right to remain silent."

"why", like there has to be a reason, i have to know the reason, i have to tell them the reason, and the reason has to be ok with them.

some precious lil "people" totally full of themselves. (conceited). it never ceases to amaze me how they could think so highly of themselves. (too much self esteem)

confidence not proportional to competence

I think sometimes confidence gets rewarded *instead* of competence.

In America do they call that 'talking the talk'?

I don't like it when people are judgemental like that either. I think it's silly and immature.

in some situations, it is necessary, justified, normal, or natural, to be judgmental.

but there are not that many of those situations.

and sometimes things are not the way they appear.

when you are emotional, dichotomous thinking is tempting.

"thin line between love and hate". both love and hate cause someone to make actions and statements they later regret. so i try to avoid both love and hate. love and hate are pretty much the same thing. (not like my idiot coworkers: "bro", "cuz", "blood") (rolls eyes) (puke). those lil insects have their own "inner circles". they act like they think they are so worldly, wise, smart, awesome, and cool. but they are just a bunch of wild animals.