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I have a friend who was my BF just a few h ours ago, but we are taking a break, I feel so worthless, so useless so sad.....why? Should I kill myself? I feel so lost so lonely.

From, Roady

don't kill yourself! its not worth that. think of a time that you have been really, really truly happen. I promise you, one day you will feel that same way again. Just give it one minute at a time.

I feel so depressed and empty..........why?

because someone someone who was important to you doesn't have the same place in your life as he used to. this can cause anyone to feel lonely.

don't worry, you'll be okay. give it some time

Before I met and married my husband I was engaged to my highschool sweetheart. when he broke it off with me I thought I was going to die because my heart was so badly broken. what you are going through, what you are feeling, isn't anything new, it's very typical.No,No, No....suicide is not the answer. You get yourself busy with whatever it is you like, talk to us...and you will see, things will get better. You will then find yourself telling some other heart broken person that their pain will also pass.

Paula: Really? Is that true?

Honestly...YES it's true.

Well, it's the opposite, I'm gonna break up with him soon.....

I know where you are coming from also. Before I met my fiancee, I literally went through a dozen relationships that ranged anywhere from a month to three years. When we broke up, I was convinced that it was the end of the world and that I would never find anybody to love me. I thought suicide was the only way too, but that would have meant never meeting my sweetheart.

So, although you are feeling depressed and lonely right now, find a way to say to yourself that you will find love because you are a truly good person inside. It may take a while, but "love will find a way to your heart."

This is an update, I broek up with him today at 4 PM I'm so sad now

It happens, a prebreakup plan helps, a stash of chocolate, some Ben and Jerry's, some outside activity, hard to think when ice skating. No time for a sad movie, you are not hungry enough to go out and feed again.

Break and let it all go, do you think about last weeks garbage?

Loss or freedom, which party will you be attending?

We morn the loss of loved ones, exes are not loved ones.

Boyfriends come and go. It's hardly worth suicide.