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richardbenson
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27 Dec 2007, 12:51 am

without having naming names, if your going to have your topic moved to the secret forum, dont make it.


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27 Dec 2007, 12:53 am

yes, I was enjoying that topic, I was composing a post when it disappeared. Here's what I was going to say:


I've just had to dump a friend who is bipolar and had gone off her medication. I've known her about 9 months too. She's a monster off medication and I don't need the drama... lies, manipulation, belligerent, controlling yeah all that.

Interestingly I have been long term friend with another (pathological) liar and it's like breathing to them, nothing could be more natural. I think it's about control though, because when you deceive others you have the advantage.

There's also the thing about if you really believe it, it's not a lie, a sort of bill clinton thing. I think many liars actually believe their lies and are thus not regarded as lies by them.



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27 Dec 2007, 1:17 am

what i want to know is why you would make a topic only to have it removed. the person has also edited posts. i think it had it moved because i quoted it, and it couldnt edit it so it had it moved


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27 Dec 2007, 1:39 am

There's a secret forum?



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27 Dec 2007, 2:22 am

there is a 'secret' forum?


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27 Dec 2007, 2:24 am

yes. most boards have them


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27 Dec 2007, 11:02 am

Secret forum? Are you talking about the Adult Form with Adult topics?



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27 Dec 2007, 11:59 am

I wouldn't call those topics, adult. teehee.


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