Uncomfortable situation last night

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13 Jan 2008, 9:28 am

Last night I was hanging out at barnes & noble for a couple hours. There was a girl that came into the store about a half hour before I left along with two of her friends, a girl and a gay guy. I heard her say "why is that guy following me" and then I happened to her her talking on the phone about it. I wasn't following her around. Any other aspies ever been in similar situations where other people think your following them? This has been bothing me since it happened.



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13 Jan 2008, 10:37 am

She is deliberately being a b***h and she is not worth your attention. It would be in your best interests to document what she says and does, possibly with pictures if you have a camera phone. At some time you might want to profile her for a wall of shame or take the evidence to the police. You should ask her in a reasonable voice to stay away from you because you want no involvement with her.



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13 Jan 2008, 4:23 pm

She's probably only mucking around or trying to impress her friends.

I did something awful once in McDonalds.

There was a girl serving and she was dressed a bit awfully. I said, (too loudly) to my friends...

"You know what is funny about McDonalds... I know that their mascot is a clown but why do they have to make their staff dress like clowns?"

She slammed the fries down pretty hard on the tray and they went everywhere. I have no idea what she did to my burger (never insult someone making your food).

I truly regret the incident - it was about 15 years ago and I still feel bad because NOW, as an adult, I can understand how she felt. At the time I was just being a smart-ass.



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13 Jan 2008, 5:51 pm

gbollard wrote:
I have no idea what she did to my burger (never insult someone making your food).


That's one of the cardinal rules in life. Obey this one (along with a few others, like not being a snitch) and you won't go far wrong.