RANT, i love her

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this is a rant, feel free to reply but you don't have too, i just need to get this off my chest

I LOVE HER

she is the greatest person i ever met, and for the first time in my life i've really felt something for a person, more then physical attraction, a spiritual attraction. the fact that she can understand my views on society and seconds them, and the fact that she tries to keep a conversation with me, she helps me if i ask her too. and yet im too afraid to tell her what i feel.

i can see her face behind my closed eyelids if i really want too, i can hear her voice if i really need to hear it, and yet.....

for years i've craved for someone like her, and now she's in my life and now that we're friends so to speak, i don't watch her from a distance, i talk to her, i laugh with her, and yet i nearly cry when i acknowledge that i'm too much of a depressed socially incapable f*** to confess that i love her.

i could say she drives me crazy but she doesn't, she calms me. when i'm close to her makes meunderstand all those love songs. and yet i'm too scared to really get near her.

i think i'm going to sleep now, always hoping she might feel the same for me

god i hate myself
but I LOVE HER

Last edited by lithium on 22 Feb 2008, 4:28 pm, edited 1 time in total.

oh...just bee careful....

Careful indeed. It's wrong to love another if you haven't first come to understand and love yourself. Otherwise, it's just a mere desire to have her quell your sadness, so what would you be offering to her?

It`s not love, you`re just really attracted to her. Does this attraction maybe inspire you to do something positive with your life? Because then maybe you could learn to love yourself. So don`t write her off--it`s natural to feel this way about some people, but it won`t lead to anything until you have some sort of control in your own life.

please explain yourself

I take it that this is the same girl you asked for advice on how to tell that you love her.
I also take it that the reason you hate yourself is that you have yet to muster up the courage to tell her.

Now if you will excuse me for abusing caps lock: JUST TELL HER! How can telling her possibly be worse than what you are apparently going through by not telling her?

Hating yourself is no good! Always try to do things that makes you proud to be you. You will find that many good things will follow all by them self if you do.

I have to disagree--telling the girl you love her will turn her off, most likely.

What is it that you don't understand?

There is a chance of that yes. But if not telling her makes the guy hate himself, isn't it a chance worth taking? Also judging from lithiums previous posts about his girl, I would say that the odds are good that things would work out for the better, if he would just let her know what it is that he wants.
Hereby not saying that he should jump her and blurt out "I LOVE YOU!! !" that would most likely scare her off, but threading water has never gotten anyone over the finishline.

I recommend killing her and putting her in your freezer so no one will ever be able to touch her like you can.

... lets call that plan b... or c

you say "don't write her off" what do you mean with that.

I mean that it is possible for you to have a relationship with her, IE to love her, but not until you love yourself. Because love is a shared feeling!

i guess that makes sense, thanks.

Question, why do you hate yourself if she loves you?

i'm not sure if she loves me, i'm not sure of anything thats why i hate myself, though she's getting closer to me everyday and my selfhatred fades away with it too, might that be a sign?