18-yr olds Which would you rather have?

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I would much rahter have been poisoned than get a whipping, I don't know about you guys- I SUFFER WAY MORE THAN YOU GUYS EVER HAVE- Getting a whipping at 18- COME ON! none of your problems could even match up to that.

Oh, it's a contest?

Becareful with what you wish for. Poisoned versus whipping?

I think Princess means the humiliation is as bad as getting poisoned, for her, because for her it causes a lot of pain. (And there are anti-spanking laws and also anti-assault laws, but yeah, she could jsut say she didn't do it... )

18 years old.. this is key. I dont know about New Zealand but here in the states 18 years equals adulthood. It doesnt matter who is abusing you, any physical abuse directed toward an adult is a crime. I think technically you can even shoot or stab someone in self defense as long as you can prove you werent trying to kill them. I believe you have to think your life is in danger to actually kill them and whipping wouldnt necessarily qualify. You should protect yourself regardless however. My advice is to put distance between yourself and whoever is abusing you. If you cant do that, invest in a tazer. Whatever you do dont poison them. You could get locked up for that.

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It sounds like you need to get out of there.
Do you have a safe place to stay?
Do you have a safe way to support yourself?
Do you have a plan to continue school?
Your site shows you are a smart person, so I know you can get yourself organized. Then you just need to set a date and time to escape to a more sane environment. After that you can call and say you are OK. Trying to publicly leave may get you asaulted again. Leaving with the police or one of your friends as an escort will probably cause long term resentment. Don't burn your bridges, but do escape.

Learn karate, how to defend yourself.