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12 Apr 2008, 7:24 am

Their is this boy called Kbabz he wanted two girls
sadly for some reason it does not work like that
so i told him where to go



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12 Apr 2008, 7:38 am

Did he cheat on you?



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12 Apr 2008, 7:39 am

NO BUT HE WANTED ME TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND
WHILE HE WAS GOING OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL



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12 Apr 2008, 7:52 am

No offence, but I don't see what's wrong with polygamy. Besides, if he has two girlfriends, then you can have two boyfriends... :P



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12 Apr 2008, 9:56 am

This has always baffled me! Why do some men want 2 girls? Are they not happy with the woman they are with currently? Don't he love her enough?

Simple selfishness if you ask me.


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12 Apr 2008, 12:14 pm

If it's true, then he's highly ridiculous, no one should ever have more than 1 significant other.

But what makes you say that he wanted you?


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12 Apr 2008, 2:23 pm

We are not meant to mention other members in our topics here, it is against the rules.



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12 Apr 2008, 3:40 pm

8O

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12 Apr 2008, 5:53 pm

I won't try and cover this up as it'd make me look like a complete idiot. But what happened was that she was trying to get me to dump Amanda and go for her. I didn't want that as it'd hurt Amanda's feelings and we have been together for about 4, maybe 5 months now, of which I have put in my own funds to send her a music CD and a silver necklace, and there was NO WAY I was going to break that. So, when I proposed to do a dual, she got upset (and I personally take it that she was jealous of what she described as 'that fat cow Amanda' being more important than her), and threatened to stick me out. Which of course she did, as can be seen here.

EDIT: As clarification, it's not too well-known here that I am in love with anybody, as me and Amanda predominatly talk over AIM rather than on WP.


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12 Apr 2008, 7:33 pm

Immature and your not dating. It's the f*****g internet. grow up babycakes.


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12 Apr 2008, 7:54 pm

KBABZ wrote:
I won't try and cover this up as it'd make me look like a complete idiot. But what happened was that she was trying to get me to dump Amanda and go for her. I didn't want that as it'd hurt Amanda's feelings and we have been together for about 4, maybe 5 months now, of which I have put in my own funds to send her a music CD and a silver necklace, and there was NO WAY I was going to break that. So, when I proposed to do a dual, she got upset (and I personally take it that she was jealous of what she described as 'that fat cow Amanda' being more important than her), and threatened to stick me out. Which of course she did, as can be seen here.

EDIT: As clarification, it's not too well-known here that I am in love with anybody, as me and Amanda predominatly talk over AIM rather than on WP.
Personally, if you want to do a dual relationship, that's okay if you tell both sides. Your story is slightly biased towards Babycakes (though if I could see the messages, you might not be...), but I think it's closer to the truth :/ I think you should just stick with Amanda though - wouldn't you like to get mre serious with her. I don't think you could do that with a dual relationship.

I think it's time to move on Babycakes, you should try finding a guy who you know in person.
Also, it's unbecoming to you if you rant on the wrong board using his username (personally the love and dating board would have been better), as you could have been wrong and given an actually nice guy a bad rep if everybody believed you.



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12 Apr 2008, 8:18 pm

Heh, apologies for the bias.


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12 Apr 2008, 8:51 pm

Two relationships? Insanity! Just one relationship is stressful enough!


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12 Apr 2008, 10:27 pm

Why in the blazes would you want two relationships? One is a burden in itself. It's sick and wrong if you ask me.


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12 Apr 2008, 10:29 pm

KBABZ wrote:
Heh, apologies for the bias.
I don't mind, it's human biasness :P I was just pointing it out so you could try not to use it in the future, as it makes you look like a nicer person.



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12 Apr 2008, 10:31 pm

Hehe, I've seen this before, not only that but I saw it in real life. (where I personally only consider dating as being real, hope that doesn't make me an a**hole). I think the dude had HFA, he was 27, his girlfriends were both 20 and 18 and were also in a relationship with eachother. Amazing, eh? Its not my place to judge anyone, but situations like that make my eyes widen. However, in an online situation where things aren't very serious, well, I guess it doesn't really matter.