Sorry for posting all these threads in the Haven lately, but if you look at the Used and Abused threads, perhaps you'll see what I'm talking about:
I have had two very, very, VERY special someones in my life. Each time I have broken up with them on bad terms. How does one "let go" of them, and "move on," as they say. I've tried everything, from hiding my computer that I used to contact Girlfriend #1, to pressing harassment charges Girlfriend #2 when she refuses to leave me alone (she comes as close as she possibly can to me whenerever it is possible. Taking the door closest to me, if there are two doors right next to each other is an example, stil another is cutting in front of me when I'm at the deli line in college).
At any rate, my question is how does one "move on?" I don't know if this is especially Aspie-related or not, but when you've known someone for 14 (I think months) and dated them for that long, you fall in love with them. And it hurts when you find out you were nothing but a friend to them and they were cheating on you for 10 of those months. When you've lost your virginity to someone, you don't forget them either. And it hurts when all they wanted was to be intimate with you, and once you get too annoying they break up with you.
How do I simply forget them and put them behind me? They are part of my sources of depression. ESPECIALLY when Girlfriend #1 refuses to stop contacting me though I've told her many times not to.
It's gotten better, but it's still not the best. I used to cry all the time in my room. My roomy never cared.
04 Jun 2008, 8:35 pm
