My A-hole family *Warning contains harsh language.*

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I havent been sleeping well for a month or two. I slept 4 hours yesterday and I dident sleep tonight and its 4 in the morning.

Anyone have any pointers on how to sleep when your under alot of stress?

I think part of the problem is that I dont feel safe in my house .

Plus it is always noisy and I have to sleep with ear plugs in.

Any help would be great, Thanks.

You should talk to your nice sister. Chances are she would let you move in with her.

I am going to visit her in a few days and I'm staying almost a month. So I'll see how I feel about it and I may ask her.

Oh and I won't be on here the whole time so if anyone askes where I went just tell them I went to viset my sister up north.


I dont want anyone to worry .

I feel bad complaining on here all of the time but it is good to vent right? just tell me if you guys get sick of hearing me complain about my family.

The new family dog we have named bitzy is having trouble sleeping at night . She was abused at her old home and doesn't like sleeping alone.

I wanted to let her sleep in my room but my dad wouldent let her. He makes her sleep alone in the living room.

The problem is she keeps every one up at night whining to be let in someones room.

I kept wanting her to sleep in my room but my father wouldent let her. This morning my brother toled me that dad said bitzy wasent allowed in my room at all .

No real reason that I could see, I'm guessing dad dident like the fact that bitzy made me a littly happy .

So mom stepped in and said she can sleep in my room if I clean up after her poop and walk her and everything else. I said ok.

So at midnight dad is knocking on my door teling me to clean up her poop. I said "I dident know she pooped" . "I let her out to wander because you toled me I'm supposed to let her wander around the house if she wants to".

He said "you should have taken her out first".

He is right about that I should have .

Why knock on my door at midnight? What if I was sleeping?

The only reason I wasent sleeping is because dad was blasting music in the living room till 10:30 when I was trying to sleep.

Now he has messed up my sleep schedule and I'm up at 1:08 in the morning.

My sister ownes a dog too and she craps all over the floor too. The bathroom has been cover in pee and poop for months and the whole house has crap in it from HER dog!

He never wakes my sister up to tell HER to clean up HER dogs mess!

Why tell me to clean it up at midnight ! !! why! I'll tell you why BECAUSE THE MAN HATES ME,
THAT'S WHY!! !! I hate him too.

Why does he sit up at night blastin the stereo as loud as it will go the FIRST NIGHT I GET TO BED EARLY ?! BECAUSE HE HATES ME ! !!

Then he blames me for sleeping in late.

I sleep with ear plugs in EVERYNIGHT and I can hear his music even with that!

I really get sick of this .

Is it just me thinking I'm being treated bad?

I hate living here.

I just dont know what to do

It is absolutely vital to vent. If you don't, it builds up and you'll just explode - and for aspies this has much worse ramifications for us.

Vent all you like - this is, after all, a large part of the reason for the existence of this forum.

As for your father, the only choice you have is to get out of there. First chance you get, leave. He's only going to kill you slowly - and he'll enjoy every moment of it.

Thank you for caring.

You're welcome, I'm always happy to be there for those who need a hand.