unspoken tension with a former roommate

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pinkbowtiepumps
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18 Oct 2008, 5:16 pm

what should i do? my roommate from last year was fine, but i think we really disliked each other because of a lot of unsaid problems. it's really been bugging me lately and our other suitemates and friends are getting involved as well. it's like a mini war.

i know i dealt with all of this the wrong way, and said some things i shouldn't have. as a result, things became far worse than i would ever want : too much tension! do you think it's worth it to approach them about it and clarify my intentions, tell them i don't mean to be malignant, and that i do wish them all well? is it worth it trying to rectify my actions?

the roommate in question transferred to a different school (this had nothing to do with me), so i probably won't ever see her again. still, i do want to talk to her about it even though she's difficult to talk to. if it all in vain, or should i go for it?