I'm angry at everyone who's ever been rude or disrespectful

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to me.


For years I've harbored this anger and I didn't know how to explain why until now. Now I know how to explain it. I'm angry at people who've been rude to me when I wasn't rude to them and didn't disrespect them, and I'm angry at people who disrespected me when I wasn't rude to them and didn't disrespect them. I want them to know how much they hurt me. I want my mother to know how much she hurt me always telling me to be polite to people when they weren't polite to me. I want to be rude to them and adisrespect them. I want to give makeovers to the girls at school who played Fix Up The Ugly Girl with me. I want to boss my mother around, and I want to tell off some people on WP for having the wrong feelings, like they did to me because they decided that the feelings I had were inappropriate. I want to tell this doctor I had who overstepped her boundaries as a doctor how to live her life. I wasn't asking her to tell me how to live my life in a rude, smug and condescending and bossy way, as though I had absolutely no choice in the matter and HAD to listen to her or ELSE. And she even basically SAID that I had no choice, that she was my boss. I had just gone to that psychiatric hospital to ask a doctor if they knew of any medicines I could take that might help me with a particular problem I was having.


Can a moderator delete the other thread I started as adverb with this same post in it? He forgot to log out and I forgot to check who I was logged in as.

well you need to get these people out of you life

Most of them are out of my life. It's just that I guess I'm scared that I'll let more people be rude/disrespectful to me, or let them do it again. Sometimes I don't know how to stop it.

You should try learning from your mistakes of letting people make you angry I guess. Mind you if some one gave me that advice I'd just at them so
I'm in a not so different situation myself

Hi Ana54. I can relate to what you are saying. This can cause a lot of ill feelings to build up inside us. I know it's easier said than done, but try to forget them. But yes, that is tough. I have this saying, "It's easy to forgive, but you can never forget." So, if you continue thinking about these people's wrongs towards you, you will tend to remain angry. In order to defeat these feelings, you must forget them and be happy. Remember to be your own best friend. They have no right to judge you. Remember that they are in the wrong and you are in the right if they have wronged you. Time seems to heal things. And with time, I have a tendency to feel better about wrongs in my life. I'm no expert in giving advice on how to deal with this, but I did want to talk to you and tell you that I can relate to you. And all I can say is try to think about other things and forget about those people's wrongs.

I feel like that too sometimes. The best you can do is wait for it to pass... Try distracting yourself with something.

I take the approach that those who are rude and disrespectful to anyone are simply demonstrating their own ignorance and stupidity ... I let the problem be theirs, and do not take it on board myself.

I still have bouts of pent up aggression about similar things, but if ppl are disrespectful to me now, they f*****g well know about it. I've worked damn hard to get over the constant abuse I had up to 19, by various people, and I'm simply not taking that s**t anymore. You shouldn't let ppl grind you down, and I learnt that after nearly 20 years, but it's never too late to start.

Chin up, Ana54. Take no crap and you will be ok. It will happen whether you worry about it or not (the ppl being rude to you, it happens in the world and will always), so don't take it. Makes you feel so much better.

seems like an awful little anthill to be making a mountain out of.

Thanks Glider18, Shadow50 and LadyMacbeth. I know I have to stand up to them.

People often think I'm being rude when I'm really just being an aspie and I can't help it. I think you shouldn't take anything that feels unfair. I'm trying to say that you should always forgive.

i'd rather want to make up for all the peeps i been rude to then punish the rude ones... but now i sound like christ >.< and i'm an atheist :p so nvrm that.

I have this too, sometimes. I can only advice you to get pass them. I know it isn't that easy, but it's the only thing you can do. No one has to be treated in a bad way when they didn't deserve it.

Chooty: I do want to make up to the ones I feel I was rude to.


Warsie: I can't; I don't know where most of them live anymore. And two (I think just two) of the others apologized in a quick, not-enough sort of way, but that's just it; it's not enough. One of them (I think just one) would deny she ever did that and say she didn't remember, and she may even call me a liar. There are others too who I know would be that way to me in certain situations because they believe it is justified, for the greater good or for the victim's own good.