edited because ppl have read and not given any opinion.

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I'm sorry that you felt ignored. The haven isn't a very quick moving part of the forum. There's lots of times that I read something in here, but don't offer any advice, because I can't think of anything to say, or I'm really afraid that I'll make the poster feel even worse. Maybe, that's why no one had responded yet?

Another reason may be that The Haven has a special rule that does not apply to other forums:

"If you have nothing nice to say, then don't post it in The Haven."

Seeing as how most of seem to have a strong snarky streak, it's little wonder that The Haven gets less attention than the other forums.

I'm sorry you're feeling sad misswoofalot.

Thanks everyone, It makes me so much feel better knowing this forum moves slowly, and ppl don't reply if they have nothing nice to say, or don't know how to help, or are worried about offending, etc, because I now know thay ppl aren't just ignoring me because they don't like me. Jesus I must have a low self esteem.

Irrational thoughts, I know....but it felt like I was back at school and everyone was ganging up on me , and giving me the silent treatment.. but now that I know all this I'm really fine!

Thanks again ppl! And for anyone who read the thread before I edited it, I have managed to sort it all out on my own anyway.