Worried about my parents divorcing...really feeling crappy

Post Reply New Topic

Yesterday my parents got into a huge, huge fight in the morning. Lots of yelling, f-bombs, that kind of thing. I don't know what the fight was about. My father packed up a lot of his stuff and left for a couple for the day but ended up coming back. My mom ended up tearing a couch and throwing it out, saying she was going to throw all the sofas out and sell the house. Today, she started ripping up some wooden tiles we have downstairs and wants to dry wall it. She says now if my dad was mad at her he's going to really hate her now. She wanted me to move a bookcase for her and when I stopped and said this is good enough she yelled at me and told me t stop being so f-king lazy and me being lazy was one reason why my dad was mad at me...even though he shown nothing that he's mad at me. She then said he's throwing his family away.

She also accused him of sending secret emails to people and having a secret email account, which I know for a fact is not true. She keeps saying she is going to leave and sell the house. Though my dad can be difficult to get along with my mom can also be a major b***h. I'm not picking sides, I'm just worried about what will happen.

Right now I'm just spending hours at the gym when there both at home so I can release some stress.

Basically my mom's upset because she thinks he's having an affair with a younger woman, which may or may not be true. Please help me. Im in second year uni and not sure what I am gonig to do.

i dont think theres too much you can do. theyre both adults. mine got divorced long ago, but they didnt end it untill about 15 years later. they fought over custody, at least you wont have to deal with that :]

good luck, whatever happens. just be prepared, s**t happens, and may happen, but you'll be fine. at least over time. just brace yourself in case it turns sour.
(if it doesnt, then your home free :] )

in this society, no one stays married. it's just a fact.

it happens to almost everyone's parents. if they fight alot, maybe it's just what's best, no point in delaying the inevitable.