My problem there is, I'm to chicken to pick up a phone. I agree, having someone like you that you don't like (not fun & creepy)! Though in my case, the guy's an aspie (one of only 2 aspies to cause me grief/have met a fair few), not attractive & threw out marriage proposals to all my friends & me (girls)/ not fun to deal with!
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Balance is needed within the universe, can be demonstrated in most/all concepts/things. Black/White, Good/Evil, etc.
All dependent upon your own perspective in your own form of existence, so trust your own gut and live the way YOU want/need to.