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03 Apr 2013, 8:11 am

I would love to move from where I live. I am a liberal in a conservative, extremely religious place. My state comes in in the bottom 5 for education, well-being, income, etc., and in the top 5 for obesity, smoking, childhood poverty, etc.. The cost of living is pretty low but so is the quality of life. I guess you get what you pay for.


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03 Apr 2013, 9:47 am

Yap
I'm thinking about leaving my country, to live somewhere where scientists/specialists are more needed (so they receive more money) :twisted:


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03 Apr 2013, 10:16 am

Without a doubt, my county. It has QUITE a reputation for STD's here and there, and I seek business in the gaming industry. State, maybe if I'm able to stay at Vancouver, then I would take the chance.



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03 Apr 2013, 12:37 pm

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I would have moved to LA. I can handle 90 degree weather if it's not humid and im not in a car.

But real estate isn't much cheaper, it's even more vulnerable to quakes, and the politicians are even more hoplophobic.

I wonder if TX or GA is a good idea?


I have not been to Georgia, but I do live in Texas. Trust me it has some humidity in it, plus in the summer it can get up to the high 90's to 100 + F. and stay there in the triple digits for several weeks. With the humidity it makes it only worse.

Real estate on the other hand is a lot better in Texas than Los Angeles.


Never been there and don't have family there. But housing is irresistibly cheap! You can also have better schools (depends) and get to keep anything you want!

I've been to Atlanta though. It's humid as hell but if there's a pool nearby and the AC is not broken, it isn't too bad.


True, but If the AC breaks it won't a pleasant experience.


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04 Apr 2013, 10:40 am

Brainfre3ze_93 wrote:
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I would have moved to LA. I can handle 90 degree weather if it's not humid and im not in a car.

But real estate isn't much cheaper, it's even more vulnerable to quakes, and the politicians are even more hoplophobic.

I wonder if TX or GA is a good idea?


I have not been to Georgia, but I do live in Texas. Trust me it has some humidity in it, plus in the summer it can get up to the high 90's to 100 + F. and stay there in the triple digits for several weeks. With the humidity it makes it only worse.

Real estate on the other hand is a lot better in Texas than Los Angeles.


Never been there and don't have family there. But housing is irresistibly cheap! You can also have better schools (depends) and get to keep anything you want!

I've been to Atlanta though. It's humid as hell but if there's a pool nearby and the AC is not broken, it isn't too bad.


True, but If the AC breaks it won't a pleasant experience.


Ah, it's true. Thank goodness I BARELY know how to swim. To the pool if that happens.
Or I could buy a backup unit while the main one is being replaced.


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05 Apr 2013, 12:59 am

I'm just determined to get myself to L.A.


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05 Apr 2013, 3:07 pm

I'm British, but I want to move to Seattle. I've been there four times (twice in April, once in August/September and once for Christmas), and I think I could tolerate anything the weather can throw at me. Actually getting into the country permanently and legally is the tricky bit.


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05 Apr 2013, 4:30 pm

I thought about it & alot when I was frustrated about things & I finally was able to move out of south Louisiana 4/5 months ago when I moved in with my girlfriend in Vermont; it was a long distance thing before that.
Reasons I wanted to leave in random order as I think of them.
~I'm sensitive to heat & humidity & don't tolerate it well. Louisiana only has winter weather for a couple months & it's mostly when cold-fronts come though & then the cold goes away till the next front.
~I have sinus problems that are made worse from smoke from suger-cane fields getting burned & from seasonal allergies of things blooming or growing half the year.
~I cant drive due to low vision & my area was rural & didn't have public transportation so I needed my parents to bring me everywhere.
~I had little job opportunities & no help except the runaround from voc rehab & other agencies that were supposed to help me find employment.
~I'm on Social Security Disability & have Medicare & state Medicaid but places/docs wouldn't accept Medicaid because it didn't pay them enough. I have Vermont Medicaid now instead of Louisiana's & I never had to pay to see a doc yet here & the health clinic is only a 5 minute walk away
~I didn't like the attitudes of a lot of the people I met & knew or I felt like I had the wrong political beliefs, morals, didn't like various activities I was supposed to like. I felt like I didn't belong & should not of been there.


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05 Apr 2013, 4:54 pm

ThatRedHairedGrrl wrote:
I'm British, but I want to move to Seattle. I've been there four times (twice in April, once in August/September and once for Christmas), and I think I could tolerate anything the weather can throw at me. Actually getting into the country permanently and legally is the tricky bit.


Judging from your avatar, that must have been kind of like taking a pilgrimage for you. I hope things will work out, that would be pretty cool.


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08 Apr 2013, 5:56 am

I would be happy to move somewhere where people weren't so intolerant of anyone different from themselves.


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08 Apr 2013, 11:20 pm

I've posted in threads like these before, but...

Since I seldom get to travel, I'd like to have the opportunity to get out and experience different places before I decide on a place to relocate to. I simply cannot stand Texas. The weather sucks. The politics suck.

My criteria for a new place to live would be:

1. Legalized same-sex marriages, as well as other legal possibilities for LGBT citizens. Texas is a state controlled by far-right douchebags who attempt everything in their power to f**k over gay people. Seriously, DO NOT live here if you are gay. Homophobia is practically a past time in this god-awful state.

2. Seasonal weather. Texas summers are hot as hell, and it has these quasi-winters that don't actually feel like winter except for cold fronts.

3. Public transportation. I live in a city that has over 300,000 residents but no public transportation.

4. Urban area, with a fun, active nightlife.

That's about all I can think of.


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08 Apr 2013, 11:37 pm

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Texas is a state controlled by far-right douchebags who attempt everything in their power to f**k over gay people. Seriously, DO NOT live here if you are gay. Homophobia is practically a past time in this god-awful state.


If you hate it here that much, I doubt that many people will try to talk you out of leaving.



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09 Apr 2013, 12:03 am

Yes, but since I had to quit work due to health issues, I doubt if I'll ever be able to live anywhere else. Money is the first thing necessary in order to even move to another city. It's sad, because it's a huge dream of mine. Who knows what life will bring?



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09 Apr 2013, 12:53 am

I've lived in a few cities, but haven't really left the state. I still daydream about being a Florida beach bum, but I know the reality wouldn't live up to it. Heck, just heading back for a week would be bliss... :D



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09 Apr 2013, 1:47 am

eric76 wrote:
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Texas is a state controlled by far-right douchebags who attempt everything in their power to f**k over gay people. Seriously, DO NOT live here if you are gay. Homophobia is practically a past time in this god-awful state.


If you hate it here that much, I doubt that many people will try to talk you out of leaving.


Like I care.


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09 Apr 2013, 12:17 pm

Descartes wrote:
I've posted in threads like these before, but...

Since I seldom get to travel, I'd like to have the opportunity to get out and experience different places before I decide on a place to relocate to. I simply cannot stand Texas. The weather sucks. The politics suck.

My criteria for a new place to live would be:

1. Legalized same-sex marriages, as well as other legal possibilities for LGBT citizens. Texas is a state controlled by far-right douchebags who attempt everything in their power to f**k over gay people. Seriously, DO NOT live here if you are gay. Homophobia is practically a past time in this god-awful state.

2. Seasonal weather. Texas summers are hot as hell, and it has these quasi-winters that don't actually feel like winter except for cold fronts.

3. Public transportation. I live in a city that has over 300,000 residents but no public transportation.

4. Urban area, with a fun, active nightlife.

That's about all I can think of.


The place where you live sounds awful. Get out of such a place ASAP and have a better life somewhere else. I don't think there are many countries that have legalized same-sex marriage yet. Somewhere in Europe, maybe? Even if same-sex marriage is not yet legalized, I think there are many progressive cities where people are not bigoted. But I think all your other criteria are met quite easily in many big cities. Also if you start driving a car, you probably don't need public transport.