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04 Jul 2015, 9:24 pm

Hi guys I don't want anyone noticing them what do I do?!


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05 Jul 2015, 3:39 am

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05 Jul 2015, 7:52 am

FNAFROCKS wrote:
Hi guys I don't want anyone noticing them what do I do?!

Maybe you could try wearing a sports bra? That tends to make them less noticeable. Or, like Who_Am_I said, you could buy a binder. I hear you on not wanting people to notice them, though. I find my boobs to be much more trouble than they're worth most days.


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05 Jul 2015, 8:14 am

I can totally understand why a female would want to hide her boobs. I started out with noticeable boobs and it was like like males couldn't help but notice and occasionally stare. This made me uncomfortable. All females are NOT seeking males, nor male attention, nor any attention at all. Or maybe they want male attention to something else besides their boobs. Also, boobs get in the way of clothes fitting sometimes or just plain in the way.
When my daughter was little, maybe five or six, she said she didn't want boobs. I said, that's okay, if you don't want them you don't have to have them. I kinda thought her views might change as she got older and they did. There was no need to force reality on a child. But either way, it's up to the individual to decide.

There are bras sold called minimizers. Binders are probably most effective. Sports bras are great too! Your clothing of course can make all the difference as well. More loose fitting tops being most useful. There is, of course, surgery but unlike a tattoo that can usually be removed these days, surgery leaves scars. Also, your opinion on the pleasure/usefulness of the body part in question may change over time



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05 Jul 2015, 11:44 am

Wearing kind of loose fitting tops that aren't female specific can help....like a regular t-shirt that doesn't fit tight, for bras don't wear one with any padding or wires or anything that can add bulk, sports bras might work and can make them look a bit smaller because they are designed for keeping your boobs close to your chest without moving a lot for sports activities rather than to define them more.

Or you can wear a tightish sleeveless shirt under a t-shirt, or button shirt or whatever shirt you want to wear....obviously it helps if your boobs are kind of small, otherwise it can get a bit more difficult.


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05 Jul 2015, 12:51 pm

Get really fat. When your belly is bigger than your boobs, people won't notice them as much.



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05 Jul 2015, 1:18 pm

I respect women's right to do whatever they want with their bodies, but I find it sad so many seem to be so inconvenienced by their boobs. Women naturally have boobs. Just because men like boobs a lot doesn't mean we can't appreciate you as a person. Jerks will be jerks, and, if they can't find boobs, they'll find something else to be jerks about. You shouldn't need to lose your boobs to be respected.

But I know my opinion won't change anything. It looks like future women won't have boobs. I'm not sure if this makes me a bigot, but I think it's sad.


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05 Jul 2015, 1:21 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
I respect women's right to do whatever they want with their bodies, but I find it sad so many seem to be so inconvenienced by their boobs. Women naturally have boobs. Just because men like boobs a lot doesn't mean we can't appreciate you as a person. Jerks will be jerks, and, if they can't find boobs, they'll find something else to be jerks about. You shouldn't need to lose your boobs to be respected.

But I know my opinion won't change anything. It looks like future women won't have boobs. I'm not sure if this makes me a bigot, but I think it's sad.

What about those of us who feel weighed down by our boobs? Boobs are basically like sandbags that are permanently strapped to your chest. They can weigh quite a bit, and that weight can cause backaches, slumping posture, and other kinds of discomfort. (The weight of my boobs even causes my breathing to feel restricted sometimes.)

Also, what about those of us with saggy boobs? Once your boobs start to sag, people judge you for that. (There's less judgment towards saggy boobs when the sagging is due to pregnancy, but for those of us whose boobs have sagged due to weight loss (as is the case with me), people tend to be less kind.) I'm actually afraid to be intimate with anyone because I feel like they'd be disappointed with my saggy boobs.

Seriously, though, if a woman dislikes her boobs, then that's fine, and no one should make her feel bad about that.


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05 Jul 2015, 4:54 pm

Anachron wrote:
Get really fat. When your belly is bigger than your boobs, people won't notice them as much.
They won't notice much else about you, either.



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05 Jul 2015, 6:26 pm

Sorry, bad joke.

I have nothing of value to offer on this.

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I prefer the sag and large areolas. Real woman!

You boys will understand in about twenty years.



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05 Jul 2015, 11:59 pm

I just wear baggy clothing if I want to hide my boobs. There's really no way to hide them otherwise. I cannot stand most tight clothing unless it's more like a sock than a constrictor and that's hard to find. Sensory problems suck...


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