BirdInFlight wrote:
they're not going to think "friend" like they would for sure in, say Britain, they'll think it's an odd way of saying she's your lover.
Nope. Really not. Me mates is just me mates, nothing funny going on between us. "Guys" and "blokes" is generational and regional, though I'd say the borderline is about 30-35 years old; if you're 40, I think you're more likely to say bloke, depending on region of course. I tend to associate "bloke" with East London: Or no this bloke, roi', oo sez eez mates wi'zis geezer oo can ge y'z a pack o fags on the sloy, if loik yor missus ain' wonnin yoo oo smok or summink.
Also, Australia.
"Mate" is big in Scouseland- sorry, I mean Liverpool.
I've never come accross someone saying "buddy", "bud", or "feller", though "dude" is still used sometimes.