monty wrote:
I always identified with Spock - I don't remember anyone calling me that, though.
It's funny how men tend to approach relationships that way... identify the problem, fix the problem, move on. Women want to talk about their emotions and how something made them feel, or they just want someone to 'listen' and make reassuring noises and gestures without really thinking about doing anything that would change the situation.
Aspies are from Mars, too far from Venus?
Stereotypes are from Earth.
Really though, women and men are socialized to act this way. Boys are taught not to talk about their emotions or cry; women are taught not to offer solutions lest they look to aggressive or demanding. If everyone were socialized to move towards the middle ground a little, I think it would be better for both genders.
Back on topic, though, I always admired Spock, but I didn't identify with him because I was the loud, rambling kind of Aspie who sings at inappropriate times and rattles on about things that don't interest anyone else. Spock was quiet, so I didn't think I was very much like him. I always hated when the women chose Kirk over him, though. I didn't understand how anyone couldn't see that Kirk was a blustering egotist.