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06 Feb 2026, 3:04 pm

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I wish I can get a loan, I HAVE TO GET OUT OF HERE. The staff is killing me, they keep making things worse, I feel like I'm going get a mental breakdown, they were a few times when I went soooooo crazy, I'm getting dangerously close to getting a mental breakdown. No one want to help me. I wish I can die in my sleep.
I do not understand how getting a loan would allow you to move our unless your wanting a loan to buy a house. If your wanting to buy a house, it's extremely unlikely that you would be approved for a mortgage due to your low monthly income, lowish credit score, & currently owing other debts. If your planning to move into an apartment, getting a loan won't help unless the loan is only supposed to cover the initial upfront costs like the first month's rent & security deposit & your regular monthly income like SSI would be more than enough to cover your monthly rent, utilities, & groceries & such. If your wanting to move to an apartment, there may be some government programs & non-profit groups that would be willing to help with the initial costs. It sounds like your living situation is very frustrating, perhaps there's some other types of assisted living facilities in your extended area that you would be allowed to move into like other nursing homes or group homes.


I want the loan to go to a hotel for a while & pay off some of my debts. I'm getting more money later & I still have money in the trust fund, but my STUPID sister won't give me enough money, she is mishandling MY money.



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06 Feb 2026, 3:06 pm

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If someone ,is pushing ( suggesting) you to take out a loan? you best examine your circumstances very carefully .
Not good , to take out loans in order to help anyone but you . Old saying , by founding father of the USA , " neither a borrower or a lender be ".
Best way to avoid scams, is not to be a part of one . Nor taking a chance to be a part of one .( just in case) imho.


I want to get a loan.



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06 Feb 2026, 4:39 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
I wish I can get a loan, I HAVE TO GET OUT OF HERE. The staff is killing me, they keep making things worse, I feel like I'm going get a mental breakdown, they were a few times when I went soooooo crazy, I'm getting dangerously close to getting a mental breakdown. No one want to help me. I wish I can die in my sleep.
I do not understand how getting a loan would allow you to move our unless your wanting a loan to buy a house. If your wanting to buy a house, it's extremely unlikely that you would be approved for a mortgage due to your low monthly income, lowish credit score, & currently owing other debts. If your planning to move into an apartment, getting a loan won't help unless the loan is only supposed to cover the initial upfront costs like the first month's rent & security deposit & your regular monthly income like SSI would be more than enough to cover your monthly rent, utilities, & groceries & such. If your wanting to move to an apartment, there may be some government programs & non-profit groups that would be willing to help with the initial costs. It sounds like your living situation is very frustrating, perhaps there's some other types of assisted living facilities in your extended area that you would be allowed to move into like other nursing homes or group homes.


I want the loan to go to a hotel for a while & pay off some of my debts. I'm getting more money later & I still have money in the trust fund, but my STUPID sister won't give me enough money, she is mishandling MY money.

You cant really pay off debt with new debt effectively. At best you are just reshuffling the debt. You would need to increase your income and lower expenses in order to pay off your debt.



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13 Feb 2026, 4:39 pm

The only loans you could qualify for are maxing out your credit card if you have one or go to a pawn shop or buy here pay here app or a payday loan but please dont do any of them. They will just make your life worse. Could you ask a church for money because a lot of churches give to the poor.



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21 Feb 2026, 1:11 pm

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You cant really pay off debt with new debt effectively. At best you are just reshuffling the debt. You would need to increase your income and lower expenses in order to pay off your debt.

What Texasmoneyman300 expressed is the best advise , short of discussing your trust fund situation with a lawyer.


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21 Feb 2026, 4:52 pm

pcgoblin wrote:
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You cant really pay off debt with new debt effectively. At best you are just reshuffling the debt. You would need to increase your income and lower expenses in order to pay off your debt.

What Texasmoneyman300 expressed is the best advise , short of discussing your trust fund situation with a lawyer.

Thank you.



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21 Feb 2026, 4:58 pm

Don't borrow money. That's how the rich enslave you.


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21 Feb 2026, 6:49 pm

EmpireHonda wrote:
Don't borrow money. That's how the rich enslave you.

thats true...borrower is servant to the lender.



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22 Feb 2026, 10:55 am

When I suggested seeing a lawyer about your trust fund, I realized you likely do not have the money to hire a lawyer. However, it seems to me there are lawyers or services that can help with little or no fee. I am worthless when it come to such things. Kitty is located in California. Does anyone have advise for her? Agencies? Services? Lawyers?
I am going to be away for a month or so. I hope this has a good outcome.


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23 Feb 2026, 12:30 am

pcgoblin wrote:
When I suggested seeing a lawyer about your trust fund, I realized you likely do not have the money to hire a lawyer. However, it seems to me there are lawyers or services that can help with little or no fee. I am worthless when it come to such things. Kitty is located in California. Does anyone have advise for her? Agencies? Services? Lawyers?
I am going to be away for a month or so. I hope this has a good outcome.

there are disability rights lawyers in some places. Maybe one could help her. I heard some do it pro bono.



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23 Feb 2026, 12:47 am

Texasmoneyman300 wrote:
EmpireHonda wrote:
Don't borrow money. That's how the rich enslave you.

thats true...borrower is servant to the lender.


Unless you borrow enough that you going under threatens the lender's solvency. :lol:

Not that Kitty is in a position to do that.


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23 Feb 2026, 6:05 am

funeralxempire wrote:
Texasmoneyman300 wrote:
EmpireHonda wrote:
Don't borrow money. That's how the rich enslave you.

thats true...borrower is servant to the lender.


Unless you borrow enough that you going under threatens the lender's solvency. :lol:

Not that Kitty is in a position to do that.

I was just going by what the Proverbs says about debt.



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23 Feb 2026, 7:06 am

Try GoFundMe.


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23 Feb 2026, 7:34 am

also you could maybe ask for donations on TikTok....thats a trend now or it was recently.