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remember ancient memories that are quite pleasant

I am contemplating lunch.

contemplating dinner

I haven't had any thoughts about getting or needing a (part time) job since I switched college majors, what a great feeling!

Thinking about making tactical choices here and there

Oh my god! I'm so stressed. There has been unforseen obstacles regarding my new apartment. Already??
I have spent a lot of time thinking about how I say and write things, trying to have a more profesional language. Otherwise I think I sound like I'm eight or something

Hey , take your time and a little time out to allow the mind to calm down a little, am aware what it can be like to have some relative mental focus to then get gushing in on you like a waterfall!, i take a deep breath in and slowly exhale, this relieves a little stress in the cup that is overflowing, i have then learnt to just take a short break and/or go for a little walk, it allows my subconscious to remove all the extra crap that overcomes me, i still feel the anxiety and panic but removing myself from the surrounding that triggers these responses for even a short time helps tremendously!

As for feeling like a child at times when writing... Sorry got no advice there as i was literally just reading over a few of my past posts cursing alex that i cannot delete them! lol, so know how you feels there! hehe... Hope you feel better settled soon!

How to mingle... Analytically! And without feigning interest or demeanor. WHILE having fun.

Muahahaha!! !...

Stressing about job hunting.

I want part time to start. Husband wants me to jump into full time, but teaching is very social and exhausts me quickly. Last time I tried teaching ESL full-time I lasted at the company for 5 months before I was so physically ill from stress my doctor told me to quit and rest for a bit and find something less taxing.

I know we need the money, but until my Japanese is up to par and I can translate or do something that involves less people, teaching makes the best pay. I can make the same teaching 3 days a week as I would working 5 days at a convenience store or some other service job. I have to keep my sanity, what bit I have left.

Thank you so much!

I'm going to try and trust other people to know how to do their job. I can't have control over everything. Even though that was exactley what went wrong yesterday. (The real estate agent had done something wrong, and I'm not a hundered percent sure the wrong will be corrected even though the contract has been signed)

As professional language go, I ment in professional settings. Like talking to the bank on the phone or writing a formal email. Here on wrong planet I try just to be myself

All good ... The irony is im going through a realestate battle myself, have always paid the rent (ok some payments delayed a couple of days due to circumstance)... recieved a letter on the 29th and date of print was the 5th, and gave me only 14 days to reply, and as i recieved it on the 29th it was way beyond that, and was mentioning i was in arrears by $570, i knew it was ANOTHER admin error but the anxiety and worry that letter did to me was unreal! Called head office and they looked at my account and told me i was in credit!! ! asked her about the letter and she coudnt understand why i was sent it or even the amount! then had to meat with someone from head office about it the next day, and they said the same, asked not to get her in trouble but it did cause a huge amount of unneadeed stress and that it was the 4th time it happened! I then went on a polite rant about administration systems and payment software and mentioned i had never witnessed a system as bad as theirs as i have worked with them myself... asked if they could please review there systems again and mentioned if they in future send me another letter that is wrong, i will view it that the company is treating my like a 3rd party organisation to do their job for them and i will be billing and invoicing head office a $50 fee for the letter and extra for my time to be doing their job for them! There was a lot more on top of this and seem to be having to explain the legalities of their business to them when im not even part of said business.. Ended up researching it all myself, and they are liable for a number of things, so gives me a little leverage, i pointed the issues out to the lady from head office and she refuted what i had said and that what happened and what they want is company policy and didnt care what the legal organisation and citizens advice bureau says, its their policies, .... well, basically got an email that evening re-enforcing EVERYTHING i had said to her! total switcharoo! If i didnt inform myself of their own paperwork and legalities they could have easily steamrolled me, never even got an apology! even after the 4th time!! ! grrrrrrrrrrr ( lord...... actually incident is about 5x more than im typing, but dont want to write a novel! hehe... but yes, stress was an understatement!! !

^Hope my problems didn't remind you of your similar problems too much, so that you got stressed again!

It's definetely hard to have control of ones emotions in situations like that, but if someone feel they have handled the problem in an ok manner, I believe they will grow as a person and maybe handle the next similar situation with a little less stress (hopefully).

Autism sucks,

Just saying...

^^
Agreed. At least at the time being.

Having a meltdown is what's on my mind at the moment.

^Super hugs for you!

Meheh, you are a sweet kitty.
Thank you.