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21 Oct 2016, 2:19 pm

President of the Philippines says to hell with North America.


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21 Oct 2016, 2:20 pm

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President of the Philippines says to hell with North America.

We can totally discuss this, but in PPR or N&CE?


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21 Oct 2016, 3:11 pm

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President of the Philippines says to hell with North America.

We can totally discuss this, but in PPR or N&CE?


There is no rule against mentioning politics in Random in passing, I do it. A one off comment shouldn't offend you.

Anyway what is on my mind is how many people with disabilities kill themselves, seems a statistic is hard to find. That is depressing but no more I guess then seeing an ungodly high number. Also can we not play nice anymore? I think everyone here knows what a bad social experience feels like. I mean damn that is why I have been suicidal for an entire year, so bearing that in mind. I am greatly upset when I see fighting between members. This life sucks and everyone on here has the potential to have a life that sucks so it seems like knowing that as a group, we could be a little more accommodating.

{The part about fighting is not directed at anyone but some thing I saw a few days ago, I would rather not hunt for the thread or names}



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21 Oct 2016, 3:32 pm

I'm worried about offending others. We probably agree that Duterte is dangerous and unstable, and also that the Philippines has the right to chart its own course.

I don't expect a fight in this case, but I wouldn't necessarily avoid one in any case. I just try to keep it where it won't bother others and everyone has consented to the possibility of a fight.


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21 Oct 2016, 6:09 pm

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It doesn't feel like I won, it felt like being psychologically tortured all week, but I'll take what I can get. I've tried to think as empathetically as possible about the situation, but I still feel like, "yes, f**k you, I knew I didn't do anything wrong, f*****g YES!"

A strange and emotionally confusing victory, but a victory nonetheless :twisted: .

I can relate to that so much it's not even funny. I think they call it can't win for losing where I come from.


That's a good way of putting it. I find interactions confusing enough without him screwing up the proper order of things. I do a nice thing and he gets angry ?!?! it's maddening!



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21 Oct 2016, 6:13 pm

Racheypie666, your username reminds me of my Pokemon OC, her name is Rachel.

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21 Oct 2016, 6:25 pm

If one wants to know why my current country admin is doing that, I might able to translate the context for you. (Note that I didn't vote and my opinion is neutral)
Sigh... When people forget to take account of someone's context to another. :(




Politics and laughing aside... Here's something that may offend someone:


IN MY OPINION, If you are diagnosed as autistic, and no longer became anxious and awkward, there are two possible things:
Either you're just an NT who happens to be a eccentric clumsy sociophobic anxious wreck all along. Your 'sensitivity' is just low tolerance and low threshold, NOT the lack of filter. Your 'skills' are just some coping mechanism and self-accommodating actions that compensates -- your anxiety makes one overworked and mistaken for ASD. Your oddity is just your personality. Your lack of social skills had anything to do with lack of practice or lack of natural 'flow'. (Unnatural flow is acting. NTs do this a lot, too)
So YAY! You're just a really needy NT. And that's not a bad thing or something to be ashamed of.
OR
You're actually autistic and you can't deny them no matter how high functioning you are, no matter how you doubt the diagnosis, no matter how many times you get rid of the label officially and/or unofficially. You will notice other shortcomings of being autistic that had been overshadowed by anxiety and social issues. You WILL realize that autism isn't some social disorder that people kept assuming. You'll understand your cognition better, and it can change anyday. Your oddity is your inclination, not your personality. Your social skills IS a wreck no matter how much practice, how much mind-hacking, and data gathering you did. The practice WILL still cause you this confusing culture shock feeling, and that feeling has nothing to do with trauma, anxiety, or strict moral codes no matter how you rationalize or ignore it.

When I was a denier, I thought it's the former. Turns out to be the latter. :lol: So... It IS a blessing AND curse.

All and all, that's just what I think if an (commonly high functioning) autistic overcomes anxiety. An opinion, a belief that could be FAR from the reality.
And regardless, a struggle is still a struggle... You know, Human:roll:


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21 Oct 2016, 6:28 pm

That I have a headache so I should probably take a pain killer.



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21 Oct 2016, 6:44 pm

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Also I got to speak about one of my special interests in an appropriate environment last night. I love those rare occasions because my passion and knowledge is actually an asset rather than something weird (embarrassing even :?: ) that I have to repress. Anyway I got to speak about cultural context vs human experience manifesting itself in folkloric tradition, and I nailed it, if I do say so myself!


I'm confused. Isn't cultural context part of human experience?



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21 Oct 2016, 7:08 pm

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Also I got to speak about one of my special interests in an appropriate environment last night. I love those rare occasions because my passion and knowledge is actually an asset rather than something weird (embarrassing even :?: ) that I have to repress. Anyway I got to speak about cultural context vs human experience manifesting itself in folkloric tradition, and I nailed it, if I do say so myself!


I'm confused. Isn't cultural context part of human experience?


Yes it's a part of it; I'm interested in what's cultural and what's innate. The two kind of meld together into the 'human experience', especially now because globalisation broadens the scope of 'culture'. People on opposite sides of the world can now be influenced by the same cultural stimulus, whereas traditional folklore reflects the fact that communication between cultures was more limited in the past. It's interesting to see how different societies come up with different monsters, for example, but it's even more interesting to identify when they independently come up with very similar ones. It reveals something of the nature of fear; what and how are we born to fear, and what and how do we learn to be afraid of?

So I last night I presented on grief in folklore; it's a human experience because people everywhere feel it with some degree of similarity, and it's a cultural one because conventions, practices and expressions of grief vary in different communities.



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21 Oct 2016, 7:10 pm

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Racheypie666, your username reminds me of my Pokemon OC, her name is Rachel.

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:heart: She's super cute! It's cool that you make your own OCs! :D



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21 Oct 2016, 7:14 pm

Thank you... :oops: I have a lot more too! :mrgreen:


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21 Oct 2016, 7:20 pm

That sounds fascinating, Racheypie. I imagine it's all conjecture, but interesting nonetheless. So, could you mention an interesting cross-cultural similarity and a major difference?



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21 Oct 2016, 7:31 pm

That I'm sort of "afraid" of going to bed. I think this stems from childhood. So I will wait untill I'm ready, or so exhausted that I fall asleep. There is no point laying awake for several hours tossing and turning anyway.

Oh, and I have a permanent smell off wallpaper stripper in my nose at the moment.



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21 Oct 2016, 7:34 pm

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That I'm sort of "afraid" of going to bed. I think this stems from childhood. So I will wait untill I'm ready, or so exhausted that I fall asleep. There is no point laying awake for several hours tossing and turning anyway.

Oh, and I have a permanent smell off wallpaper stripper in my nose at the moment.


What's wallpaper stripper? :huh: Is that like nail-polish remover for walls? :lol:


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21 Oct 2016, 7:37 pm

Lillikoi wrote:
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That I'm sort of "afraid" of going to bed. I think this stems from childhood. So I will wait untill I'm ready, or so exhausted that I fall asleep. There is no point laying awake for several hours tossing and turning anyway.

Oh, and I have a permanent smell off wallpaper stripper in my nose at the moment.


What's wallpaper stripper? :huh: Is that like nail-polish remover for walls? :lol:

Yes! That is actually what it is :D but unfortunately it didn't work though....