Oh crap, my narcissist cousin is coming to stay for a week

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Chyndonax
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12 Jun 2009, 1:49 pm

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If someone treats you without respect, you treat them the same, I can't stress that enough. Leave your room to say hello to the family BESIDES your narcissistic cousin. Totally ignore them, and go back into your room and stay there. Lock your door, what I do cos I don't have a lock is put the chair underneath the door knob to stop people entering.

Someone of that nature doesn't deserve your time or even the energy to talk to.

Personally I would warn them and the 2nd time I would get physical. Some people just don't understand a verbal warning...


I agree. Getting physical will draw the wrath of the family for a time but will shut her up. In the long run it might well be worth it.


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13 Jun 2009, 6:16 am

But make sure you lock your stuff up, otherwise they'll try and take revenge by breaking them.



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29 Jun 2009, 7:26 pm

Phew, everything went fine. She's a lot more mature now, and she actually seems pretty okay :) Crisis averted *holsters pistol*


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29 Jun 2009, 7:57 pm

I HAD(Sense the dread in there?) to go visit my family in St. Louis, and of course, when everybody heard I was coming, they had to come into STL as well.

Well, my California cousins came. Of the three cousins from there, one is a complete biatch and narcissist. She somehow found out I have AS, and she rubbed it into my face that she was going into all honors classes at UCLA. I'll tell you what shut her up: Me telling her that she'll get bested by people a lot smarter than she is(She really isn't that smart though), and that if she keeps rubbing it into peoples faces, she will have no friends or a life. I really dislike my mothers side of the family, with the exception of a few aunts and my uncle. My cousins, or at least the one's that are graduating now are extremely self centered. My other California cousin wants to be a psychiatrist and study AS, so that we can understand it more.

She's cool(the one who is studying to become the psychiatrist.)

My aunt from Cali told me that I needed to take medication, because she doesn't like my "happy fingers". Like seriously, I do that when I get excited over something like a breakthrough I made. I didn;t think they bothered people. Luckily I hid my other problems from people (urinary problems, long road, story for a stormy day)



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30 Jun 2009, 8:58 am

ryan93 wrote:
Phew, everything went fine. She's a lot more mature now, and she actually seems pretty okay :) Crisis averted *holsters pistol*


Haha, good for you, she's lucky she isn't my cousin :wink: