House. Yard. Dog.
That's my dream, right there.
I'm now living in an apartment again (a little less than 4 months in, 1 week left), and I HATE HATE HATE it.
It's dark. There's lots of loud people at weird times (gee, 1 AM? Great time to shout at your friends or neighbors!), no yard, and no view outside (just a big tree blocking everything), bad smell in the kitchen (no matter how hard I clean, it still stinks), and the first 3 months I had a terrible, volatile neighbor who would SCREAM at her roommate all the time, and was visited often by people who looked like thugs.
Because I don't feel comfortable either on the apartment grounds, or the neighborhood that it's in (flat, very concrete style of buildings, lots of traffic and noise, high density)... it's EXTREMELY difficult to get myself to even go outside.
In order for me to see anything nice or interesting outside, I need to drive, and if I don't feel like driving (through all the noise and traffic...), it ain't going to happen. There are a couple of alright parks nearby, but parks just feel weird and artificial to me, especially here in the desert, where they look nothing like the natural landscape.
My next stop is my parents house. It has a yard, 2 dogs, great view, generally quiet, much more sunlight inside, immediate access to natural/undeveloped areas that are fun to explore, slightly less immediate (but still easily walkable) access to forest land, and a quick drive to real wilderness, and in a hilly/less dense/much lower traffic town which is actually enjoyable for me to walk around in.
I am where I am right now for three reasons-only:
Wanting to be away from loud roommates who wake me up at night - Guess what? In an apartment, you still share walls, and your neighbors can be just as bad.
Wanting to be where I could find a job in my field - Guess what? Eight months unemployed, and I haven't found jack.
Wanting to be near my 'friends' - Guess what? I hardly ever get to see any of these people.
If I'm going to be stuck with minimum wage crap (with 3 college degrees and a 3.9 GPA in my main field of study), I sure as hell aren't going to waste my life in a big dense ugly loud city.