emilywhaaat wrote:
I can't stand people saying "No offense meant" before or after offending you. I mean, come on! I already am or was offended. It's just the same as telling someone "I like you and all, but I don't really like you, like you". If you have something to say, say it straight with no sugar coating it.
I'm not racist, but..." followed by a racist comment.
"I know it's none of my business, but..." followed by a harsh critique of something that, indeed, is none of their business.
"I know I don't have kids, but..." followed by an arrogant attempt to tell someone else how to raise their children.
"I know you don't wanna hear this, but..." Then
don't say it.