It is not healthy to think of yourself as a victim, I've found. Victims are not proactive or inspirational, they let their issues fester and the people around them suffer as a result.
As to what causes this lack of proactivity, well - if you are in a toxic situation, whether that be a problem with you or the people in your life - and you seek help to get out of it, and things just don't get better, or other problems appear, it's demoralising. They start to think nothing the will ever do can help them. Some reach this place quicker than others, though.
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the trials and tribulations of a girl pretending to be normal
14 Jul 2011, 3:07 am
