Things we love about makin' love

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maybe if there forcing the issue, nice and slow is where its at.

And housework.....the guy must do LOTS of housework. Pledge is like an aphrodesiac.

So true momoftom-- when my husband does the dishes I fall in love all over again .

Oh, no. I've been roped into this lie before. Pledge only helps you polish some wood.

I would try that as foreplay, but we have 2 dishwashers, so you never have to put dishes away. Just use clean dishes from one then put dirty ones into the other.

But I do cook.

OMG ... someone else that hates to put dishes away. I can't do it! Well, I can, but it takes me almost 2 hours and I have to have every cabinet door in the kitchen open the whole time. I have to take little sanity breaks. I call it "THE DREADED". My loving wife just laughs and asks what the problem is, I tell her I have dishfunkshia and it is too 'painful' to talk about right now..... I deal with it though. So does she.

Good idea using 2 dishwashers!

It's very clear. When someone makes love to you, you can be absolutely sure than they like you.

Let's not get making love confused with having sex.

I'll let you know when it finally happens for me. . .Yep, I'm still a V.

I love making people happy

I also love the closeness, just lying wrapped up in someone.

I don't like the fact that every girl I've ever met seems to have a body temperature uncomfortably hotter than mine - if I stay wrapped up in somebody's arms for too long it feels like I'm gonna boil. So then I have to move away and - no matter what I say - they feel unhappy again.

Sociable_hermit, maybe you could try snuggling with a gap between you. Maybe just have your arm over her or something, to keep physical contact but to still have some cooling-space. That way she won't feel you're trying to get away from her entirely.

It saddens me a great deal. Emotionally I love being held and it's even better when you're content and drowsy. Plus if you're naked there's an acceptance there - that you are loved even when there's nothing left to hide behind, if you see what I mean.

Physically, though, the heat thing is a nightmare. It gets worse if my blood sugar levels are high. I've tried laying with just an arm or leg touching but I can feel the heat radiating through it.

Not an issue at the moment, though

Sorry to hear that.

It's ok. I find it more heart-breaking meeting really nice people and messing up their lives than I do just being on my own.

I'm gonna concentrate on feeling happier about myself rather than rushing into another relationship. Though I still hope to find someone who I can talk with openly without being afraid, and who has nice cold feet to cool me down

I'm feeling guilty about hijacking this thread now - sorry everyone!

I agree. Making love to conceive is different (better) than just for fun.