I agree that the fetish definition is bastardized in one form or another and the paleontological explanation is it's truest form as it is the oldest (as far as I know) but in modern/general terms it's relating to sexual gratification.
As for the Aspie/Autist thing, well, I'm still learning and that will change things up as I learn more. I just like Asperger's as a term as it codifies a series of things I feel and identify with.
As for the current craze of diagnosing, I feel it's a two parter.
1) As they codify their findings, things will appear to be 'new' when it's just been called something else: He's got Asperger's VS. He's a problem child.
2) There are those who want to jump on things to try to justify their lot in life: I can't excel because I'm (Fill in the blank).
I've had success. I've had failures. But, I want to find out why I'm so off kilter in a world that should not even notice me. I've been fortunate to work in a profession that allows and even celebrates strangeness. But, even that wears thin.
Just got an email about a function I was approached to do 4 months ago. Was promised pay. Now, they want to renege on the money AND made a pointed reference to 'understanding' about the pay, but they 'hope I will attend'. Seems backhanded to me. Why renege? Why mention the pay only when I inquired about dates to plan my month? Why was there not a blanket email to all attending saying the same thing? Let's just say we've had dustups lately and I think they are purposefully marginalizing me and my participation.
This is the type of thing I don't know how to handle or even the situations that caused the dustups to begin with. Basically, it's been real and it's been around my whole life. That inability to understand people and how to handle them in social situations. There are other factors too.
So, it's been 55 years and whatever they decided to call it now, it's still the same thing.
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8