Why do people complain?

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what do you mean by "her"?

i never treat her. actually i don't want to see her face at all.

BUT, if shes beautiful , i always sympathise. i feel like i wish if i can hug her and calm her down.

I stand corrected. As long as you didn't treat that one specific girl as a sex object, that's what matters.

^i told you. i won't treat that one specific girl as a sex object, because i don't want to see her ugly face in the first place.




apparently beautiful women don't care about what u r saying, since they embrace the "if you got it, flaunt it " thing.

try to type in youtube a neutral word like "music"... every female singer is flashing her bare butt on the stage, although she is known for being a singer. only a singer.

i like that.

It's perfectly fine for women to enjoy flaunting what they've got, and it's perfectly fine for you to enjoy watching them on YouTube. I have no issue with that.

But back on topic - I'm starting to suspect some people might 'complain' because they're surrounded by people who truly don't care (as evidenced in this thread) - so they're reaching out in the hope of connecting with someone who does understand, and can empathize with their feelings.

even this ugly cow

Wow - I've never had my point refuted by Demi Lovato's butt. Well done, sir.

I wish I could of seen her front instead of just her back.

Because life is suffering.

Complaining can drag everyone down, or it can help people bond. Complaining about people seems to do more of the first, but for people in difficult jobs, misery loves comedy. A funny, accurate complaint can work all sorts of wonders.

I think people complain, because they need to vent and release negative energy in order to make room for positive energy.

Thank you Cockney Rebel for bringing this thread back on topic, and raising the standard of discourse. It was getting out of hand due to some irrelevant and misogynistic posts by a certain user.

^ you already sent me a warning "before facing a banning".


why this?:

saying "misogynistic" is considered a personal attack. no misogynie, i only belong to a different culture.

anyway u r right .. its my mistake i totally felt home/ overly comfortable expressing myself on this site.

I am quite aware that different cultures have different values and we are prepared to accommodate that. This is a multicultural site and we want everyone to have a good experience here. There have been users who are unhappy about some of your posts and we have to take their feelings into account too. We don't want to "chase anyone away" so please just be more mindful of the feelings of others. We are not humourless "cops" here. We have to walk a thin line here because we have to think of the majority of members and not give special preference to one over another.

Than you for your feedback.

People on Facebook that complain, they complain about soap opera actors, they can be too hard on young actors like children. The people even complain about celebrities, saying they are too fat when they just had babies or other stuff that people think it's dangerous for the celebrities' child.

Oh. I think you mean criticize rather than complain.

Hmm. I don't know about this. I criticize music and singers I don't like because I just can't get my head around why they are so popular when they hurt my ears... im looking at you Coldplay.

The only actress I criticize is Meryl Streep. Why is she so popular. She acts the same in everything and she's so over the top!!

Criticizing a third party helps people bond. It looks ugly to me, but people seem to do it fairly often.